We've avoided discussion of the worldwide "Slut Walks" because they are meaningless exercises in straw men-ery intended to justify the existence of the sexual grievance industry so that it gets more funding, and to transmogrify the real reasons women aren't believed when they cry rape.
First, the suggestion that rape claims aren't instantly believed by most people, regardless of the way the woman was dressed, regardless of the absence of supporting evidence, and regardless of how far-fetched the claim, is belied by the facts. Every absurd-on-its-face false rape claim we've reported here was instantly believed by most people when it was first made. That includes police and media. Can you say "Hofstra"? See here: http://falserapesociety.blogspot.com/p/lamb-to-slaughter-hofstra-false-rape.html
Second, to the extent legitimate rape claims are doubted (and these are in the minority), the principal reason isn't the way women dress, it's that false rape claims, which are common, diminish the integrity of even legitimate rape claims. Judges bemoan the effects of false rape claims in false rape case after false rape case after false rape case. You'd think someone would finally start listening to them. But instead of enhancing the integrity of rape victims by joining with us to try to eradicate false rape claims, women and men the world over have taken to the streets to insist that women aren't believed because of . . . the way women dress.
It is as ludicrous as it is dishonest.
Let's briefly focus on one aspect of the slut walk "philosophy" to test its veracity. It goes something like this: in our "rape culture," men are afforded a free pass to sexually abuse women who dress in a sexualized manner because men are assumed not to be able to control themselves. Therefore, it's up to women not to dress in a sexualized manner.
I won't spend time trying to refute this inanity. Yes, I am quite certain that, for example, parents across America admonish their daughters who claim they've been raped if those daughters have put themselves in situations where, common sense tells us, rape is more likely to occur. Usually the problem isn't the daughter's dress as much as other things, like drinking to excess at wild parties with men they don't know. Such admonishments, of course, are not "victim blaming," they are good parenting. What is often not mentioned is that those same parents do not, in any manner, give the rapist a free pass because he is supposedly unable to control himself. If given the opportunity, those same parents would castrate the young man and shove his testicles down his throat.
No sane and rational person in 2011 believes rapists should be given a free pass because of the way women dress, and to suggest otherwise is a vapid straw man.
I note, in passing, the following interesting double-standard: while every sane and rational person believes that men have both the capacity and the duty to control themselves when it comes to rape, feminists don't seem to believe that women should be held to the same standard when it comes to false rape claims. Rape culture, Amanda Hess claims, is the reason women falsely cry rape. Among the ways this manifests itself is when "the woman had desired the sex all along, but must defend her femininity by saying that she had been coerced into sex." See here.
Get it? Men who commit sexual assault = no excuses; women who make false rape claims = merely defending their femininity.
I must be honest: the most difficult part about writing this blog is that I am forced treat inane propositions as if they were legitimate just so I can expose them for what they are.
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I have written a bit on this , im going to link it because this idiocy has taken up too much of my typing time as it is.
http://ramblingsofahairyglaswegian.blogspot.com/
That's a brilliant post, Scott. Thanks for sharing.
coming from you ill take that as a major compliment Archivist, the slut walk thing has just been a bug bear of mine since i first read about it .
This is also about using the largely phony issue of rape as a rationalization for bad female behavior. The message is "There is nothing wrong with being a slut -- and if you say there is you are pro-rape!"
Still, being a slut is considered a bad thing if you're a man!
"The message is "There is nothing wrong with being a slut -- and if you say there is you are pro-rape!"
adding on: and anti-slut criticism also means a man is a 'woman-hater, sexually insecure, physically tiny, and lives in his parent's basement, blah blah blah...'
yawn yawn yawn.
if i had been born in the last century with today's social values, i would have been a mountain man hunting and trapping for a living away from humanity.
atlas
People don't take claims of rape seriously:
http://tinyurl.com/4ymsdku
Excerpt:
"For the time being, Strauss-Kahn is holed up in the Empire Building at 71 Broadway, where management has apologized to residents and said the new arrival will be gone by "early" this week."
"Still, being a slut is considered a bad thing if you're a man!"
From the dictionary:
"slut
[sluht]
–noun
1.
a dirty, slovenly woman.
2.
an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute."
If you think a man can be a slut, you are a retard and should probably kill yourself. The only men I know of who call themselves or other men "slut" are homosexual and they believe they are really women, what's your excuse?
well hell i dont know where to start so i will go through it all.
Anonymous Anonymous said...
People don't take claims of rape seriously:
http://tinyurl.com/4ymsdku
Excerpt:
"For the time being, Strauss-Kahn is holed up in the Empire Building at 71 Broadway, where management has apologized to residents and said the new arrival will be gone by "early" this week."
* Im guessing you have never read this site, never looked at the duke case or any of the plethora mentioned here, never looked at the uk Stern report which shows that rape convictions are on par with every other crime to name but a few .... of course rape is never taken seriously , if you think that id probably be the one calling you a retard , but i dont like using shaming terms.
"Still, being a slut is considered a bad thing if you're a man!"
From the dictionary:
"slut
[sluht]
–noun
1.
a dirty, slovenly woman.
2.
an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute."
If you think a man can be a slut, you are a retard and should probably kill yourself. The only men I know of who call themselves or other men "slut" are homosexual and they believe they are really women, what's your excuse?
well the term man slut is a common colloquialisim in many cultures
Urban dictionary offers the following.
man slut 187 up, 106 down
Guys that get around. Yeah, you know who you are!
Erik: I was thinking about asking out this girl, but I've already humped 3 of her friends.
Sean: Gosh Erik, you're such a man slut
Erik: Shut up, Slutty Mc Slutterson. You're one too!
as someone who really didnt do to well with your construction here you cant argue against colloquialisims or slang , so again he isnt a retard, you on the other hand are really not doing well at winding people up .
Well Scott, my first comment,"People don't take claims of rape seriously",was obvious sarcasm, at least I thought so, because the management notified all the people staying there that a person only ACCUSED of rape, but not convicted: "will be gone by "early" this week."
Second,
"Urban dictionary offers the following.
man slut 187 up, 106 down
Guys that get around. Yeah, you know who you are!
Erik: I was thinking about asking out this girl, but I've already humped 3 of her friends.
Sean: Gosh Erik, you're such a man slut
Erik: Shut up, Slutty Mc Slutterson. You're one too!
as someone who really didnt do to well with your construction here you cant argue against colloquialisims or slang"
Sounds like a bunch of homosexuals at a shoe store to me.
Just because a large number of people are retarded does not mean I'm wrong.
The reason a man can't be a slut, the reason why WEBSTER's doesn't say "an immoral or dissolute MAN" is because EVERY male mammal is promiscuous, hence the term signifies nothing in the case of a heterosexual man.
If you are a straight man who's into the metrosexual thing, or who doesn't mind sounding like a complete imbecile, by all means,refer to yourself or other men as a slut. Those of us who passed 6th grade science will continue to laugh at you.
What's next? Are you going to start talking with other men about your period or planning your bridal shower?
The problem with gender feminists insistence that "women must always be believed when they say they have been raped", is that there are now so many "false rape accusations". One could easily say that a "Culture of false rape accusations" has developed over the last 20 years.
no you dont come across with sarcasim , just beating the whole homosexuality is something to mock people with which really is not what this place is about.
The websters dictionary is the americanised dictionary , so as a Scotsman i do prefer using the Oxford dictionary as well its using English English.
I am far from metro but in turn if someone wants to go down that road i have no issue with it , and i certainally wont mock them for it , shaming language is something best left to feminist debates.
and on that note im ending it and getting back to the more relevant discussions here.
The word 'slut' is primarily directed at women not men, precisely because men are presumed to be sluts by default. Hence calling a man a slut borders on redundancy. It is also pretty pointless as an insult, as gender-based insults only have an effect if they mock people for behavior not normally associated with their gender (i.e. mocking a man for being girly or unmanly). Terms like 'man slut' or 'man whore' appear to be modern PC pandering designed to eradicate perceived traditional stereotypes.
For example, if a woman has sexual relations with an underage boy it is usually not taken seriously or punished. Because all men and boys are whores who are always 'asking for it'. Yes, even if the woman was an ugly bag who is far removed from most young boys fantasies, he should still be grateful and considered lucky.
May be not the word slut, but equivalent terms like womanizer, are being used against men who r into speed dating or who without brooding move on after a break up with their ex and find someone new in a short period of time, even though such men are not violating anyone's rights by doing so.
With time the meanings and implications of some words do change and a non offensive word may turn offensive. There are many swear words being used against men which may not be technically correct as per the old dictionary standards.
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