Monday, January 24, 2011

Besmirched by False Allegations – Acquittal is Cold Comfort



S.R., who was acquitted of several sex assault charges after a Durham judge ruled his accusers were not telling the truth, forcefully declared his innocence from the day he was arrested until he was cleared in court.

“The lies came out, but it took four years to get there,” he said. “Somebody has to be held responsible for what happened to me.”

He could sue his accusers, or the police, but that takes a lot of money. And the police have a viable defence at the ready: when accusations of serious sexual assault were brought to their attention, they simply did their job in making the arrest.

“I don’t want to take my money and hand it to a lawyer,” S.R. said. “I’m just getting back on my feet.”

Ray Collingham is hoping to sue. His defence lawyer, Graham Clark, has assembled a list of what he says were breaches of Mr. Collingham’s Charter rights following his arrest.

“I almost wept when I saw the video of Ray’s interview (with detectives),” Mr. Clark said. “The entire tenor of the interrogation was that he would be convicted.”

Of course, Mr. Collingham never would have been arrested had his former gymnastics student not made accusations of sexual assault. Perhaps surprisingly though, Mr. Collingham doesn’t harbour bad feelings toward the boy, who is now 19; he feels the boy was pressed to make false allegations by his mother, with whom Mr. Collingham clashed prior to the accusations coming to light.

“I understand he was put into this situation he didn’t want to be in and couldn’t get out of it,” Mr. Collingham said.

But he does feel anger toward the boy’s mother. Evidence at trial suggested she had manipulated e-mails between Mr. Collingham and her son to fabricate sexual overtones that Mr. Collingham testified weren’t there.

“Nothing happened to her at all,” he said.

Suing the police for a wrongful arrest is a lengthy, uphill battle, according to Maurice Kondell. The Whitby man was rising through the ranks of the Wendy’s restaurant chain — he had become the first African Canadian franchise owner — when he was arrested on allegations of sexual assault made by young female workers at his Oshawa store.

The charges against Mr. Kondell and another man were tossed out in 2006 when it was revealed that the accusers were conspiring to launch a lawsuit against the restaurant chain, throwing their credibility into doubt.

The judge apologized to the accused men before pronouncing them free to go.

Mr. Kondell filed a $5-million lawsuit against Durham police in early 2007. The case remains unresolved.

“I feel like my life is on hold,” Mr. Kondell said in a recent interview.

Despite the cost involved and the length of the civil process, Mr. Kondell is sticking with his claim. And he advises others who feel they’ve been prosecuted on flimsy allegations to do the same.

“The advice I would give would be to seek recourse — get a lawyer and file a claim,” he said.

“If we sit there silent, it will continue.”

Mr. Clark, who represented Mr. Collingham at trial, said there currently exists no mechanism, short of a lawsuit, for those who are prosecuted on false allegations.

“There is no recourse,” he said. “And acquittal is cold comfort in these circumstances.

“I believe there are systemic problems that perpetuate injustices that are hard to address,” Mr. Clark said.

“When shoddy investigations occur, bad things happen and it’s hard to correct them.

“It’s impossible.”

Link: http://www.ezinenewsarticles.com/besmirched-by-false-allegations-acquittal-is-cold-comfort/
This story appears about halfway down the page in the link.

8 comments:

Brandon Webb said...

Another powerful story. Mr. Kondell is absolutely, 100 percent spot on. The only way we are likely to see any changes in American juridprudence (or in any other country for that matter)is for the falsely accused to fight back.

In many cases, the notion of fighting back may be easier said than done; however, the fight is necessary and success (when it is achieved) far outweighs the cost.

AfOR said...

mmmmmmm

my case was eventually dropped without any charges being brought, and the accusation was only made to win a separation / child custody case.

I wouldn't have a hope in hell of suing, because the police eventually did do their job, and thankfully I was never subjected to the publicity of being charged or named in the press, so there is an element of fuck it, I walked away from a plane crash, get out while the going is good and ENJOY your life.

kudos to the man though

Anonymous said...

I'm in with AfOR and had an outcome similar to his. Suing is indeed difficult and has its own legal, social, and financial consequences. At least in the US, in the state/county where I live, I will be eligible to have the police records, DNA samples, and grand jury record expunged within the next 10 years. But plane crash? Well for me being no-billed on a rape claim is like walking away from close proximity detonation of a nuke -- there is definitely damage to my social DNA; material, financial, career, and health losses; and currently unknown, potential long-term side effects. Enjoying what remains of my life and taking good care of myself is now my abiding goal and priority -- the best revenge is living well. Beyond that I plan to continue to visit here to anonymously support ESB, Archivist, as well as Paul Elam at avoiceformen.com and others at related blogs and media outlets. It is a luxury in the current political and legal climate to be able to remain (relatively) anonymous. Men must guard their reputations with their lives as those mentioned in the article are doing. Kudos to them.

AfOR said...

In my case even suing my FRA is sadly a fucking non starter because the Police destroyed the evidence I would have needed to prove my case, once they decided I was not a rapist and not worth charging.....

grrrrrrrr

still, as the OP says, the best revenge is to move on, enjoy life, and remember your friends when times were darker such as FRS

Anonymous said...

Th fight or flight response is applicable to false rape accusations. Most men and boys take the flight option via move to a different city, commit suicide,ect.ect, and a very, very, very few stay to fight against the perversion that caused the false rape accusation.

Anonymous said...

I could sue my false rape accuser, but i would likely only get the chunk of "victim funds" that she got from the rape crisis center, from her telling them she was raped, when she was not.

Brandon Webb said...

To my anonymous friends;

You all make valid points; however, there is much more involved with the notion of "fighting back" than civil or criminal litigation.

Robert K said...

Seriously - the more I read of the impact and after effects of false rape allegation on male victims (and yes, the innocent men falsey accused of rape are the real victims here), the less I want to have to do with women in the future period. I scare the shite out of me that as a 45yo single professional male with my life plan mapped out, this can all be thrown into chaos because some vindicative b***h decides to make up a FRA for her own benefit. Given that most women nowadays are sluts (married or not, they are all largely sluts), it is simply too much of a risk to have sex anymore. What if she is married (not that this would stop most women from f***ing the next guy's brains out) and was scared her husband might find out? "Oh I know. I'll tell the police he raped me. Then everyone will know it wasn't my fault". No thanks. I'll do the safe thing and still to prostitutes. At least most of them have morals (prostitutes at least admit they f**k for money as well as opposed to most women).
I have no respect for women. They don't deserve it. Every time I read of a woman paying the price for a FRA of false DV allegation, my day gets better.
Fuck all women.