Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Writer has no compunction about calling a presumptively innocent man a 'rapist'

Shame on you, Amelia Thomson-DeVeaux.  You have given new meaning to the terms "irresponsible," "reckless," and "rash."

Not to mention "misandry."

Thomson-DeVeaux wrote a piece about the woman who was jailed for retracting rape charges against her husband.  (And, of course, she apes the angry bow wow of the feminist sexual grievance industry in bemoaning the fact that this woman -- heaven forbid -- was actually punished for committing a crime.  But that particular inanity is the subject of another post on this blog: see here

But watch what Thomson-DeVeaux does when she refers to the man accused of raping his wife: she concedes that he "apparently pleaded not guilty to rape."  Moreover, there is no indication in her piece -- or elsewhere, that I can find -- that the man was ever tried for, much less convicted of, rape. (I suspect that if Thomson-DeVeaux knew he had been convicted of rape, that news would have been prominently trumpeted in her piece.)

Yet, to Thomson-DeVeaux, that man is a rapist. 

Yep. A presumptively innocent man is a "rapist" merely by virtue of the charges against him.

Here's what Thomson-DeVeaux writes:

"What astonishes me here is the absence of the rapist, who apparently pleaded not guilty to rape in an earlier hearing. The fact that this woman was first assaulted (multiple times!) and then subjected to extreme emotional trauma by her family more than excuses any resources she may have "wasted," and the whole case sends a horrifying message to rape victims, who are often subjected to these kinds of pressures by their families and perpetrators."  And: "The worst part of the case is that the woman was willing to cover for her rapist by going to jail."

Read it again. Let it sink in:  The husband is "the rapist" and "her rapist." To Thomson-DeVeaux, it is a "fact" that the woman was assaulted "multiple times!" (Sic: exclamation point in original.)

Except it is not a "fact."  Neither Thomson-DeVeaux nor I, nor anyone else aside from the two people in question, knows for a "fact" if the husband is a "rapist." 

Let's establish something that cannot plausibly be disputed: the husband is not a stand-in for every male who has ever gotten away with rape. And the wife is not a stand-in for every woman who has ever been raped.  Unfortunately, that is often how these cases are treated in feminist screeds.  Rather, the parties at issue are flesh-and-blood people who were involved in a fact-specific scenario that persons other than Thomson-DeVeaux need to sort out. (It is well to note, if we insist on making every case of this nature a microcosm of the imaginary rape culture, that false rape claims are a significant problem.  See here.)

To label a presumptively innocent man a "rapist" in these circumstances is premised on the morally grotesque worldview that women don't lie about rape and that a man deserves to have his name blackened, his reputation besmirched, his life destroyed, solely on the basis of a woman's charge.

We have returned to Salem, Massachusetts, 1692.

Not only has Thomson-DeVeaux done a grave disservice to the presumptively innocent -- who, yes, too often turn out to have been falsely accused -- but also to actual rape victims, because she trivializes rape when she includes among its victims women who might only be false accusers.
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But, what can we expect from a writer who starts off her piece with this:  "We hear a lot (probably more than we should) about false rape cases . . . ."

I love the off-hand casualness of the assertion, which is posited with no authority beyond Thomson-DeVeaux's serene ipse dixit.  Let's debunk this pronouncement in short order, shall we?

By most, if not all, important measures, news coverage of rape and false rape claims are not balanced but are skewed in favor of the former. This unbalanced coverage foments rape hysteria and creates the unmistakable impression that rape is rampant.  This, of course, masks the false rape problem. The vast majority of false rape claims are not charged, much less reported. They are handled at the police level with the goal of disposing of them quietly and expeditiously, often with a stern warning to the false accuser that if the matter were pursued, she would be exposed to criminal charges. Those stories never make the news. This is not my opinion, this is what police officers -- the persons in the trenches handling these claims -- tell us.

The false rape stories that do make the news are typically stories where the news media has already reported on the initial rape claim. Initial rape reports are ground-zero for the type of story the news media craves: scary. Hysterical news reporters, anxious to jack up ratings, pass off accusations by lone women or girls as fact, regardless of how troubled the accuser is or how far-fetched her claim turns out to be. You remember the Hofstra case, don't you?  Read about it.  It is a chilling example of how the news media is content to foment rape hysteria and then, when the story turns out to be false, give it short shrift.

When three University of Arkansas players were accused of an alleged rape incident at a fraternity, a local television station actually broke into the station's regular programming to provide a four-plus minute breaking news report about the accusation. Needless to say, when the prosecutor decided not to bring rape charges against them, there was no similar sensational coverage.

Would people like Thomson-DeVeaux have the news media fail to correct their earlier news reports that a rape had occurred after it turned out it hadn't?  Would they have the news media not report -- you know -- the news?

But false rape claims are news, and they need to be reported as such, more than they currently are.  Why?

First, the initial report often has the entire community in a panic, so setting the record straight is vitally important..

Second, false rape claims are a serious crime. In the Hofstra case, for example, four young men faced decades in prison for a crime they didn't commit. That is typical of story after story that we report.  False rape claims need to reported because our citizens need to know that criminality is not tolerated. The news media should not cover up a crime merely because it almost exclusively affects members of one gender, even when that gender happens to be male.

Third, and most important, to correct the reputational harm to falsely accused males, the news media owes it to them to report on the false claim with coverage at least equal to that given the initial lie. The fact of the matter is that no amount of publicity can ever undo a malicious false rape claim, and that is the least the news media should do.

Finally, isn't it ironic that the persons who parrot this canard that false rape claims get too much publicity do so in one blog after the next devoted to raising awareness about rape? The blogosphere is a treasure trove of aids for rape victims. In contrast, ours is among the only blogs devoted exclusively to giving voice to the interests of the falsely accused. That the feminist sexual grievance industry thinks ours is one voice too many tells you everything you need to know about them. And none of it is good.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

"The fact that this woman was first assaulted (multiple times!)"

So she didn't leave after the first time...

Then she didn't leave after the second time...

Then after the third, fourth, fifth, and sixth?

It makes me wonder exactly what these people are considering "rape" or "assault". Unfortunately, the details of her claims don't seem to be published anywhere.

I'm not doubting that actual rape is extremely traumatic, but whatever occurred between this wife and her husband apparently wasn't enough for her to leave. From the language used in the original article, one would get the impression that they are still married.

I question whether "wife rape" should even be considered a crime, much less be considered the same as violent stranger rape. There seems to be way too much potential for abuse -- especially during divorce and custody battles. For all we know, she was angry with her husband for some other reason, then tried to drop the charges after the situation was resolved.

From what I've read, in very first trial for "wife rape" in the U.S., the couple got back together after the husband was acquitted.

Anonymous said...

Upon further reading, apparently they are now divorced.

Jim said...

"The fact that this woman was first assaulted (multiple times!) "

Quiver, quiver, faint, faint. It was just aawwwwwful! Fetch me the smelling salts!

"...and then subjected to extreme emotional trauma by her family more than excuses any resources she may have "wasted," and the whole case sends a horrifying message to rape victims,"

So she's saying that the public is to pay for the undue (supposedly) the family put on her., as if this poor little damsle is facing one great Power Structure. Childish much?

"...who are often subjected to these kinds of pressures by their families and perpetrators." And: "The worst part of the case is that the woman was willing to cover for her rapist by going to jail."

Relly? Often? Citations please? Thought not. Or is this more of your "lived experience"?

"...the husband is not a stand-in for every male who has ever gotten away with rape. And the wife is not a stand-in for every woman who has ever been raped. Unfortunately, that is often how these cases are treated in feminist screeds."

It's the Class Man/Class Woman mentality. Very undergraduate - it makes analysis so much more sweeping and dramatic and simple.

"Upon further reading, apparently they are now divorced."
Indeed they are, and that's how this all came up. It wsas in conjunction with a custody dispute. That so lends crdibility to her accusations, right?

And go back to where her family brought all this pressure on her - to recant an accusation against a former son-in-law, after an acrimonious divorce. Were's the cui bono in that? So why did the family care and make all that effort? A sense of justice maybe?

Archivist said...

Jim, excellent analysis.

Sonja Newcombe said...

http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2010/nov/08/rape-case-woman-appeal

Here's a more neutral article on the same thing (ironically, it was linked on Feministing).

Here's the meaty part:
"In January, however, as the case against her husband proceeded, she told officers she wanted to drop the charges, even though she still maintained they were true.

In February, she said she had lied about the rape claims, and they were untrue. Officers from Dyfed-Powys police then arrested her and she was charged with perverting the course of justice. In July, the woman changed her mind once again, saying the rapes had actually happened.

Her solicitor said she had lied earlier because she was being "emotionally blackmailed" by her significantly older husband during the breakdown of their marriage, which was now over.

She told officers she had been persuaded by her husband and his family to drop the charges because he could face a long jail sentence if convicted of rape, while she would get only a few months."

If what she says is true, it's very sad that she was blackmailed by the husband and his family into this situation and she'll need counselling.

But, ultimately, she wasted court time, and there is a penalty for doing so.

Anonymous said...

I don't approve of the insinuation that the media is covering these up (that gives too much malicious credit to groups that are basically just loud kids with ADD: They shout about it when they hear it first, then get bored if it doesn't get more exciting), but other than that tiny tweak in words this was a very good article.

I'm glad to see a site like this exists.

AfOR said...

http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/11/09/feminists-fighting-to-squelch-advance-consent/#comments


A recent case in Canada involving a couple that engaged in consensual kinky sex is testing the limits of the concept of prior consent. In the case, a man and woman had agreed to asphyxiation during sex, but when the woman was asphyxiated she says she came to and found a sex toy inserted in her anus, which she claims not to have consented to.

Initially, she did not contact police, but when a custody battle came up a couple months later she called the police and claimed she had been raped. Although she later recanted her testimony, the judge still sentenced the man to jail for having sex with an unconscious person.

etc

Anonymous said...

Some of the loudest rape hysterics who foment a type of mass hysteria; are from the Gender / Raunch community. Look at campuses around the nation and track where the faulty and inflammatory agitation propaganda is coming from, and you will notice its coming from the Gender / raunch feminist community. You see they gain a sort of "Empowerment" from saying that all heterosexual males are potential rapists, all hetero sexual males are greedy, nasty, women exploiters, and that the homosexual males are not in the category of "males" because of the virtues of their sexual preferences.
The gender / Raunch feminist community has taken anti-male rhetoric to a whole new level, again because they gain Empowerment from it.
The Gender / Raunch feminist community have usurped a way disproportionate amount of power and control over campus politics around the country, but immediate gratification always has its costs.
Folks, modern feminism barelly resembles anything about womens equality, the new Gender / raunch feminism is more of a gay rally, again who gain Empowerment by stepping on heterosexual males.

Archivist said...

Anon at 5:49: We are not so simplistic as to suggest that there is a media "cover up" when it comes to false rape claims. We've explored this theme very carefully, time and time again, using real-world examples. A good one is this: http://falserapesociety.blogspot.com/p/lamb-to-slaughter-hofstra-false-rape.html

When it comes to "rape" issues, the news media is decidedly progressive, which means that reporters feel duty-bound to fit their stories into a rape culture narrative. That means that even when the story is a false rape claim, rape is still the more important social pathology to be fought. Moreover, and almost as important, false rape claims are not "scary" to the general public the way rape cases are.

Anonymous said...

She's an all too typical nifongist cunt who wants every husband in America to be subject to automatic castration by false accusation.

Anonymous said...

Guy, guys, guys!

You are over analyzing and taking this waaaaay too seriously.

Simple problem, simple solution:

She put her tin foil hat on backwards.

No biggie. Happens even to the best.

Back of skirts get tucked into pantyhose. Lipstick on teeth. Hard to tell the back from the front sometimes.

It's all in the crimp.

E. Steven Berkimer said...

Anon,

If this was atypical, I would agree with you that this was a one time slip up. But the article she wrote, is all too common. The fact is, she is attempting to cover for a lier. She either lied about being raped, or lied about not being raped. There isn't any middle ground to this one. So either way, she lied. And that is the reason for the charge.

As anon (first comment) noted, she didn't leave after ANY of these supposed rapes. It wasn't until a divorce was in the process that this came up. Sorry, but that is a bit too coincidental for most to swallow.

Ms. Thomson-DeVeaux has written an emotional piece that calls a man a rapist, with no evidence that he is one. Only the word of a person who is involved in a divorce proceeding.

And that unquestioning belief, is exactly why we are able to post articles on false accusations EVERY day.

Anonymous said...

Nov 9, 2010 7:15:00 PM

This whole thing is ridiculous.

"K.D. took her complaint to Ottawa police two months after the alleged assault, when she was seeking custody of the couple's toddler.

At trial, she testified that she agreed to be choked unconscious to "spice up" their sex life. After being knocked out for about three minutes, she came to and discovered J.A. had inserted a dildo in her anus, an act she said she had not agreed to in advance. She later recanted her testimony."

http://www.montrealgazette.com/news/Court+judge+advance+consent/3786976/story.html

Anonymous said...

Again, this Ottawa situation is another example of someone using a bullshit rape accusation during a divorce or custody battle.

It should be law that spouses or domestic partners can't claim rape for the time they were together.

Also, not allowing advance consent makes even explicit written agreement, such as that Antioch College checklist, utterly pointless.

Jim said...

"Also, not allowing advance consent makes even explicit written agreement,"

The objection I have seen to this idea of "advance consent", and I have to say it makes sense to me, is that when you are no longer able to revoke consent, you are no longer able to consent, or for sex to be consensual.

This bears on the practical inability of men to get their femlae rapist prosecuted when it's a case of date rape. Women who force men into sex, or who have sex with drunlken men, are never prosecuted for rape.

Oddly enough this point was made in an thread on Feministe. Various commenters pointed out that the cultural norm is that men always want sex form any woman who presents with a pulse, so if any woman who pushes a man into sex he's really already consenting anyway. And that menat for these comenters that a woman could bnever ereally know if a man had consented to sex, so if a woman initiated she was by definition a rapist.

Stunningly honest and logical for a site like that.

Anonymous said...

"The objection I have seen to this idea of "advance consent", and I have to say it makes sense to me, is that when you are no longer able to revoke consent, you are no longer able to consent, or for sex to be consensual."

This particular case allegedly involved some sort of BDSM "breath play" where she was unconscious. Regardless, there are all sorts of legal consent where the person is no longer able to revoke anything, such as a living will. The idea that anyone can change their mind about anything after the fact essentially nullifies the entire basis of contract law.

"Various commenters pointed out that the cultural norm is that men always want sex form any woman who presents with a pulse, so if any woman who pushes a man into sex he's really already consenting anyway."

Except that simply isn't true.

"And that menat for these comenters that a woman could bnever ereally know if a man had consented to sex, so if a woman initiated she was by definition a rapist."

Rather, just like with women, whether or not it was rape would depend on his outward manifestation of consent -- "no" means no, and no means "no".

If two people agree to sex, even inexplicably weird kinky sex, it doesn't become rape when one of those people later decides she didn't want to do that in order to seek custody of the their child.