As we reported yesterday, a college woman has identified two males by name as rapists on her Facebook account, and at least one writer for a major publication has discussed it without bothering to consider the males' point of view. See here. We have written to Dr. Cornelius Kerwin, the president of American University where the accuser and the accused men are students, urging him to investigate and condemn this public identification. We do not expect a reply, given the regrettable politicization of the issues surrounding rape, and we likely will need to mobilize an action alert to make our views known.
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The public naming of alleged rapists who haven't been charged, much less convicted, raised the issue of the purpose of such a practice. Is it "therapy" for the accusers? Is it merely a way to empower women over men? Regardless, it is an inhumane practice that should not be countenanced anywhere.
Many years ago, some zealous sexual assault counselors decided that women needed to be "empowered" and given the unilateral right to say whatever they wanted about the male they accused of the alleged crime of rape. This attitude was manifested in Catherine Comins' quote: "To use the word ['rape'] carefully would be to be careful for the sake of the violator, and the survivors don't care a hoot about him.'" So, you see, it is OK to use the word "rape" loosely, without regard for whether the accused male was "really" a rapist.
This attitude found its most vile recent expression in the University of Maryland Clothesline Project endeavor where, for seventeen years, purported rape survivors were permitted to publicly display shirts with the full names of males they accused of rape written on them in connection with an annual rape awareness event.
Did you catch that? Seventeen years.
This barbaric practice was finally stopped by the university, for legal reasons, in 2007. See here. The usual suspects chimed in to condemn the university's belated but correct decision. "The essence of the Clothesline Project is to let victims express whatever they feel they want or need to say," said Jennifer Pollitt-Hill, the executive director of the Maryland Coalition Against Sexual Assault. Pollitt-Hill said a sexual assault survivor "can feel empowered by naming the perpetrator for a number of reasons. According to the article, many "surivivors" feel the justice system, be it the court system or a university judicial board, is too lenient on the perpetrators. "Victims feel like these things silence them," Pollitt-Hill said, "and there's no justice, and no one knows what happened to them." Writing the name on a shirt can be a "first step between feeling ashamed and an empowerment stage where they recognize that what happened isn't their fault and they can place the blame where it belongs," she said. Likewise, Cortney Fisher, the senior victim advocate at the university's Office of the Victim Advocate, said that after being silenced for so long, it can be a therapeutic release to get the whole story out in the open, not just part of it. "Sexual assault victims are silenced in our society. We don't talk about it, it's uncomfortable."
Absent from the discussion was even a recognition of the possibility that one or more of the purported survivors might falsely accuse a male of rape.
Empowerment or no, therapy or no, the inhumane naming practice does not excuse the incalculable harm to presumed innocent men and boys falsely and publicly branded as "rapists" without even the pretense of due process. For seventeen years at a major university, innocent victims of vicious public rape lies had no way to effectively combat the worst kind of university-sanctioned libel against them. The trial for the hapless male was over before it had begun. He had been convicted in the court of last resort -- the university sanctioned clothesline project -- and he would be known all over campus as a "rapist." His friends, teachers and acquaintances would forever harbor suspicions about the allegation. All because a lone woman or girl decided to destroy him. And the university allowed her to do it.
But it turns out, even people who work in the sexual assault field are not unanimous in believing that this shameful naming practice was necessary to "empower" women. See here: "The Sexual Assault Center in Prince George's County holds a Clothesline Project each year but doesn't let participants write names on the shirts unless their attacker was convicted of the crime, according to Karalyn Mulligan, a therapist at the center. Even in those cases, the therapists encourage the victims to design anonymous shirts whose messages are meaningful to anyone reading them. Mulligan said she thinks the victims she works with find the project just as therapeutic."
So what is the purpose of naming names? To shame and humiliate a male, for reasons good, bad, or indifferent. Why would a woman lie by writing a non-rapist's name on a shirt? The same reasons women lie to police about rape: revenge, attention, to "explain" a consensual encounter her friends disapprove of. And which lie is easier to tell -- to make a formal police report, or to scrawl the hapless guy's name on shirt? The question scarcely survives its statement.
For women who've actually been raped, naming isn't necessary for therapy, and it doesn't help put a rapist behind bars. If a college woman claims a male classmate raped her, doesn't it make more sense to encourage her to go to the police rather than shout his name from the highest mountaintop? Wouldn't this help other women?
But nabbing rapists isn't really the goal, is it? The goal is to empower women by perpetuating cult of victimhood -- where a female accuser need not bother subjecting her claim to time-honored proofs in a court of law, and where a male falsely accused of rape is forced to watch helplessly as he is branded a rapist in the public square.
If men had publicly displayed the names of their false rape accusers on shirts, how long do you think the university would have allowed that?
Seventeen years?
More like seventeen seconds.
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This, again, raises the issue, why would any boy bother attending the shithole that our modern universities have become? Seventeen years they allowed this to go on? Where the fuck were the men? And this isn't a criticism of you, Pierce, because I know this blog wasn't around then, but every year, every guy on campus probably was concerned that his name would be displayed. And fathers allowed this? They paid tuition for it? WHAT THE FUCK!!! This is the Salem witch hunt all over.
This stuff you guys write is poetry:
"But nabbing rapists isn't really the goal, is it? The goal is to empower women by perpetuating cult of victimhood -- where a female accuser need not bother subjecting her claim to time-honored proofs in a court of law, and where a male falsely accused of rape is forced to watch helplessly as he is branded a rapist in the public square."
17 years thats crazy
i used to think duke was the campus that was the least friendly to men...guess i was wrong
victim power isnt really power
HERE'S A COMMENT THAT CAME IN THAT THE WRITER HERSELF DELETED -- I THINK OUR READERS SHOULD SEE THIS:
Why would a woman lie by writing a non-rapist's name on a shirt?
Can you cite any "shirt" cases where a woman has been sued for libel?
Inhumane behavior deals directly with 'physical' treatment of another human being. For instance, rape. Wearing a shirt with the name of your rapist is not an inhumane practice. Yes, one of the reason is to shame and humiliate the rapist. It's a type closure when all other cries for help go unanswered.
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MY RESPONSE:
"Can you cite any "shirt" cases where a woman has been sued for libel?"
That's the underlying point of the post. It would be almost impossible to attract counsel to sue a rape liar because these women don't have the resources to make it worth the attorney's time. We've discussed on this blog many times that very difficulty.
"Inhumane behavior deals directly with 'physical' treatment of another human being."
Thank you for inventing your own dictionary. You've just hurt your credibility by overreaching.
"For instance, rape."
Oh, thank you. Now we see what your objective here is. False imprisonment isn't inhumane, but rape is. Thank you, Merriam Webster.
"Wearing a shirt with the name of your rapist is not an inhumane practice."
Ah, the conclusory bow wow of extreme feminism -- an assertion posited with no authority beyond her progressive, serene and all-knowing ipse dixit. She has declared, "Rape victims win the oppression olympics over false rape victim. HA HA!"
"Yes, one of the reason is to shame and humiliate the rapist."
And to falsely accuse innocent men.
"It's a type closure when all other cries for help go unanswered."
You mean, instead of going to the police, as people do for every other crime? Or do you mean that "survivors" are permitted to slander, libel and defame innocent men even after they have been exonerated? So, the "survivor" is the judge, jury, and executioner. Thank you, for that inanity. It made my day.
Go troll somewhere else. You are out of your league here, dear.
From an apparently now deleted comment: Anonymous - "Inhumane behavior deals directly with 'physical' treatment of another human being."
No! Inhumane treatment can also include the 'psychological' treatment of another human being.
How can you guarantee that women aren't just using the name of an ex-boyfriend who they are angry with so that they can feel a part of the "movement"? Does the "rapist" they name have to be convicted in a court of law first, in order to be so named on a shirt?
Would it be okay if men on campus wore shirts to name woman who've falsely accused them? Or, if their shirts named women who've pressured them into sex that, although consensual (by correct definition), was NOT what they really wanted (you are aware, are you not, that nearly as many college men as college women report that this has happened to them?)?
We could go on. How about shirts naming women who've drunk-groped them at parties? There are any number of quite legitimate complaints men might have of treatment they suffered at the hands of women. Why don't we just allow all people to name all others who've crossed them in any way? Yeah, Equality!
Hum...
I have an idea. Since drunk driving creates far more risk to far more people than does "date rape", some enterprising male student should cross-reference the names of the female students with both their current and former places of residence to find those who've been convicted of DUI's and name them on shirts, proclaiming then as "drunk drivers".
Now, that would be a "public service". Just a little harmless "shaming", obviously NOT inhumane 'physical' treatment.[/snark]
The most telling comment was this: "Yes, one of the reason is to shame and humiliate the rapist."
The fucking face of feminism. There it is.
OK, genius: what do you do when the accuser was wrong? You've just "shamed and humiliated" an innocent man.
Oh, let me guess. Accusers are never wrong. I dare you, just try that one on this blog. Just try it. You'd brighten our miserable lives if you'd just try that one.
In UK law, wearing the name of an innocent man on a tee shirt and naming him as a rapist would of course be defamatory, and actionable.
however, it would also fall foul of the;
Protection from Harassment Act.
because it is intended, or does, cause harassment to the named person.
Public Order Act.
because it is likely to incite violence.
EU Human Rights Act
because it violates the innocent named person's right to a private life.
If more than one person is wearing such a tee shirt, then you can add "conspiracy to..." to all of those.
Fact is you have to know the law, call plod, and demand action under the act you wish to invoke.
the old story, YOU have to know YOUR rights.
I posted much of this comment to another entry, but in general its points seems more applicable here, and there doesn't seem to be a way to delete my own comment.
The issue isn't that we know Chloe Rubenstein's accusations are false, but that she herself couldn't know if they are true, according to her own stories. And like these t-shirts, without any other information, or the ability to investigate these alleged felonies, neither can anyone else.
Rubenstein's first accusation, "They drank cheap vodka and danced. At the end of the night, a female friend left the party and entered Rubenstein's bedroom. Five minutes later, the new guy followed. Rubenstein noticed and followed him in." Then what? There doesn't seem to be enough time there for anything to have happened, if she "followed" right behind him. So let's generously assume she waited. It's unbelievable that Rubenstein stood there, in her own bedroom, while some woman was screaming no and trying to push this guy off of her, and did nothing. Did she witness two people having sex, and decide it was rape because they had been drinking? Allegedly, this friend "refused to take Rubenstein's calls." Supposedly, "a mutual friend informed Rubenstein that the woman was still reeling from the events of the party." Maybe because she was embarrassed that Rubenstein walked in on them having sex? She had no way of knowing.
Her second accusation, "Around the same time, another friend informed her that she had recently been raped by another AU student in an unrelated incident" is complete hearsay. How could she know if this other woman is telling the truth? There is no mention that Reubenstein tried to contact the men in these alleged incidents to ask them what happened.
Yet, as reckless as that would be, what seems more likely is that both stories are complete fabrications, as it seems unlikely that Rubenstein would "out" two women as rape victims without their consent. While she did not name them in her Facebook post, if there is any truth to her stories, it is likely that people on campus would be able to figure out who they are. It is rather suspicious that this happened one week after Rubenstein attended a Take Back the Night rally. Her motives seem political, and a typical feminist tactic is making third-party accusations where the alleged victim does not even exist.
There also seems to be a tendency for women who believe they were raped or sexual abused at a young age to turn around and make false accusations in later life. While feminists might describe that as gaining a sense of empowerment, it is more about getting revenge against men in general and inflicting their feelings of anxiety, fear, and anger on other women. Instead of outing her alleged attacker from when she was in High School, she attacked these two other men with this post on Facebook.
In a similar way, motivated by politics, it is possible that many of these students in wanting to be perceived as victims, wrote names of of men that did not exist. According to Katie Roiphe's first book, The Morning After: Fear, Sex and Feminism, several women speaking out at Take Back the Night were caught making up their stories. In their defense, they said they did it to make people aware of the problem. But if there actually was a problem, why would they need to make up stories?
It's almost unbelievable how the University of Maryland and American University could allow these sort of practices. How could men be expected to study under such conditions?
Update to the Chloe Rubenstein story:
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Drawn by Chris Muir.
Perhaps this should be a post!
Quick question:
Should Tatiana Bastos wear a shirt naming Ricardo Morias as her would-be rapist, since we are informed that:
"Bastos told police that Morias was attempting to rape her and she defended herself."
Just curious what our latest troll might have to say about this particular "rape" attempt?
slwerner, that is also true of every false accuser on this massive website. The evil here was that the university allowed it for 17 years.
She was sentenced to 32 months in jail after she stabbed her ex-boyfriend's penis after refusing to have sex with her?
I'm thinking, if a man stabbed his ex-girlfriend's vulva after refusing to have sex with him, he would get 32 years.
The most powerfull force for any sort of activism, or social engineering is the Gender/Raunch community.
One of their main tools to "Empower" themselves is to start and foment Rape/Klan rallies.
Now that the most dominant force of college campusses accross the country are the Gender/Raunch community...what are they gonna do with us, where are they gonna lead us??
It seems to me they are turning our girls onto cheap and flashy "Raunch girls." And our boys they are turning into perverts.
"HERE'S A COMMENT THAT CAME IN THAT THE WRITER HERSELF DELETED -- I THINK OUR READERS SHOULD SEE THIS:"
No, you UN-deleted it because you pulled the trigger prematurely, like a maniac.
Yes, false imprisonment is inhuman. So is kidnapping. Wearing shirts is not.
Slwerner, why not? Why don't men gather on campus in large numbers and wear shirts naming their false accusers? Get one organized. The media will pick it up. Pierce will salivate all over himself.
If the clothesline project didn't begin until 1989, what public rape warnings occurred prior to that time?
"Yes, false imprisonment is inhuman. So is kidnapping. Wearing shirts is not."
Mischaracterization of the issue; dishonest debate tactics so typical of feminists.
We're talking about slander, of an especially dangerous and irresponsible kind, or are you just trying change the subject like someone with no manners and no clue?
Yes, false imprisonment is inhuman. So is kidnapping. Wearing shirts is not.
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Okay, so would it be inhuman for someone to wear an 'Adolf Hitler was cool" T-Shirt, with an image of Hitler beating up Jews? You're really saying that just because something is on a T-Shirt it's okay?
And no, it isn't okay to falsely accuse men on a T-shirt; you can get sued for doing that.
Slwerner, why not? Why don't men gather on campus in large numbers and wear shirts naming their false accusers?
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Because in our pro-liar society, most people will look at the FRA victim and assume that he really is a rapist. Do you ever read this blog?
Why would the victims go out of their way to make themselves targets? Nobody is going to read the T-shirt and think less of the false rape accuser; things don't work that way in America, where the Crystal Mangums and the Ashley Todds get a pussy pass, without so much as a grumble from the public.
And if it's so hard being a rape victim, facing so much discrimination in our "rape culture," why would you ever wear a t-shirt announcing to the world that you were raped? If this truly was a rape culture than wouldn't you be ashamed of it?
Obviously these women are wearing these shirts because the public is very supportive of anyone claiming to be a rape victim -- supportive to the point of gullibility-- and because they can get a lot of positive attention by wearing them.
"No, you UN-deleted it because you pulled the trigger prematurely, like a maniac."
Thanks for the libel. No, the author of the comment deleted it. I didn't. See the post? It says "AUTHOR" deleted it, not "ADMINISTRATOR." I saw it, and actually responded, then she deleted it, so I copied it from the emails where all the comments go. So you libeled me unfairly this time, genius.
And by the way, I am opposed to men calling out their false accusers. Know it all. I don't allow it on this site, and won't be part of it.
P.S. I haven't salivated all over myself since I read that Playboy is doing a 3D centerfold.
P.S.
I agree, wearing a shirt is not inhumane. But using that shirt to falsely accuse an innocent man or boy is.
The clothesline project is supposed to serve as a memorial to the men, women and children who die because of domestic violence. Their names are written on t-shirts and hung on a clothesline as a memorial. So, that's a really weird take on the project.
*I mean that was how it was at my college (to include all genders).
I know the project is specifically only about domestic violence against women (servings as a memorial to the women who die because of the violence), at least according to the website. But, in no way does it mention putting the names of abusers on the t-shirts...
MM, somehow, the effort to raise awareness about a problem some people believed was being ignored was twisted beyond all recognition to become this "empowering" event where, like the old witch hunts, women were invited to publicly accuse specific men/boys of being evil rapists. Barbaric is too mild a word for this. And, again, the best intentions are transmogrified into a brutally invasive, gender-divisive, hateful event.
Please note, I am NOT defending rapists. The problem is, until there's a conviction, we just don't know who really is a rapist. And the risk of terrible damage to innocent men and boys is breathtaking.
All of us -- no matter how much we loathe rapists -- need to prevent men and boys from being falsely accused.
"Obviously these women are wearing these shirts because the public is very supportive of anyone claiming to be a rape victim -- supportive to the point of gullibility-- and because they can get a lot of positive attention by wearing them."
That is a very good point.
See? THAT'S what it looks like when I remove a comment.
Crap, I was going to respond to comment that just got deleted. And I had a perfectly civil and logical response. Two things the commenter would probably not appreciate.
I agree with Axel. A lot of universities today have become such hostile environments for any male that you have to wonder what is the point in being there.
Why would any young man spend money and years of his life in that kind of Stalinist environment? There are better things to do in life.
And if capable male students started boycotting certain universities it would reduce their academic status further.
If men had publicly displayed the names of their false rape accusers on shirts
This is exactly what these boys should have been doing.
Wear a shirt that has written on it "Tracy Smith is a lying whore"
If she doesn't like it let her sue you for defamation and see how far she gets. Let her hire a lawyer and spend some money which is when you file a counter suit against her. You can also have her suit easily dismissed because how is she going to prove that she's the same "Tracy Smith" named on the shirt. I'm afraid that most college boys these days are a bunch of pussy whipped manginas to even permit the females to get away with this stuff.
The first time that a female pulled this is when they should have made up flyers with the female's picture on it (easy to get at college) and the caption should have been that the female is a liar and a mentally ill psychotic. These things can all be done covertly but it will have a chilling effect on the rest of the herd. I'd also find out(easy) where the girl was from and make sure that everyone in town knows she's a liar. This actually would serve a double purpose because she may have done this before when younger and there's always someone who remembers.
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