For anyone possessing the dreaded Y-chromosome who doesn't happen to be a self-loathing male, the following story should get your blood boiling.
A 17-year-old boy, in jail for shoplifting, alleged he was sexually assaulted by his 19-year-old cellmate. Atrocities like this occur frequently behind bars, but this young man did what most men in that situation do not do -- he reported it. For that he should be commended.
But the most startling, and dare I say, disgusting, aspect of the story might just be the reaction of the Sheriff's office, which the newspaper reports.
First, a little context, which is crucial to what I am about to tell you. When a female -- any female -- reports she was raped, how do police discuss it? They call her "the victim," and they tell the local newspaper reporter that they believe a rape occurred. This is so even if the alleged victim claims three, four, or five men raped her -- and each of the men deny the claim. This is so even if evidence exists that will clear the suspects, but the police haven't bothered to examine it yet. The men are locked away in jail, no questions asked, and bail is set sufficiently high to insure they won't get out before trial, or before she recants. The police would never, ever, ever dream of telling a newspaper reporter that they are examinng the claim to determine who is lying, the accused or the accuser. There is no question who is lying: the accused, of course, because a female has accused him of rape.
Newspapers go with the story just as it was given to them by the police by reporting in this manner: "Police say a 17-year-old woman was raped outside her dorm . . . ." Television reporters often describe the "rape" in the most ominous, scary tones they can conjure up. They will find some young women to intervew who will say how frightening it is that there are men out there like "that." It is not uncommon for reporters to call the accuser "the victim."
When a female accuses a male of rape, the rush to judgment to declare that a rape occurred -- by police and the news media -- is often made on the basis of no evidence aside from the female's accusation, which is often far-fetched. Too often, as we see on this website every day, the female's report turns out to be a lie.
Now, contrast that typical scenario with this story. Here is how the newspaper reports this alleged incident -- a rape claim by a 17-year-old boy. Kindly don't gag on your coffee as you read the skepicism -- my comments are interspersed:
The Columbia County Sheriff’s Office is investigating the abuse claim.
"This is a serious allegation and we're going to conduct a complete and thorough investigation to determine what happened if anything happened,” said Capt. Steve Morris.
Right off the bat, we see a comment that would be so terribly politically incorrect if any female alleged she was raped: ". . . if anything happened." A police officer likely would be reprimanded if he said that about a rape claim alleged by a female.
The young man was given a rape kit evaluation at the hospital and both he and his cellmate have been questioned.
"We have additional interviews tomorrow; we don't expect this to drag out for weeks or months,” Capt. Morris said.
Again, when the penis is on the other foot, so to speak, a police officer would never, ever say that the investigation would be wrapped up quickly -- that would suggest that police are not treating the claim with sufficient gravity, and rape claims by females are grave matters.
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"These things could happen consensually and not be detected by detention officers, to be sodomized against one's will is also possible,” Capt. Morris said.
Have we ever heard such disbelief expressed regarding a female's claim before evidence was collected? Seriously?
Law enforcement officials are focusing their investigation on whether this act was consensual or not.
The dutiful press runs with it. No talk of the boy being a "victim" in this story, is there?
The young man's father says no matter what, he loves his son.
If his son is telling the truth, his cellmate's sentence could increase by up to 20 years.
If he's lying, he'll face a new charge of giving police false information which could increase his sentence by up to five years.
Can you even imagine if a story about a female's allegation of rape included an assertion that she will be charged if she's lying? Would never happen.
The investigation regarding who will be charged will be announced in the next few days.
Link: http://www.nbcaugusta.com/news/georgia/78195682.html
Worse are the comments under the story. Victim blaming doesn't apply to males raped behind bars -- they are getting what they deserve.
There you have it. A female alleging rape is a national crisis, and the the male(s) she accused are de facto criminals, guilty until proven innocent. On the other hand, a male alleging rape might have been raped -- or he just as easily might be lying. Rape has become so terribly gender politicized that even questioning a female's rape allegation makes one a misogynist. But a rape claim by a 17-year-old boy in jail for shoflifting? Few people care about him, aside from his father and some of us. His victimization is not equal to the victimization of a female.
There is, of course, something terrible, something immoral about this double standard, and we need to speak up about it.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Atrocious double standard: When a woman cries rape, she's automatically a 'victim'; when a teen boy in jail for shoplifting cries rape, he just as easily could be lying
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Excellent.
A quite brilliant article.
I really think a complaint would be in order here.
One has to wonder if there will be some huge nationaal feminist campaign over this outrage...
I was thinking about this, and I'm not sure the double standard is because of the fact that it's a male victim. If an identical situation occurred between two female prisoners, I believe that the same language would be used - investigating the complaint quickly, to see if anything has occurred, etc.
I think that hysteria and pre-judgement will only typically accompany cases where a man is the alleged perpetrator and a woman is the alleged victim. More cool-headed responses accompany allegations in which the perpetrator and victim are the same sex; and where a woman is the alleged perpetrator against a male victim, everybody engages in an orgy of smirking and victim-blaming.
Snark,
That's an excellent observation. It is also disturbing. Not what you said, but the societal view of the issue. It underscores the view that men are still looked upon as perpetrators, and aren't really victims of sexually based crimes, hence the smirks and jokes. It's the devaluation of men.
Snark has raised a good point.
I am outraged about double standard, but perhaps the Sheriff's reaction is the one we should hear for ALL rape claims. My problem is that the skepticism is reserved for males. You know, if the rape feminists are right, this sort of reaction is going to do nothing but deter other young men from coming forward with rape claims. I suspect there would be a fair amount of feminist outrage if the genders were reversed here -- because they would say such attitudes on the part of police will only keep others from reporting.
I notice the Sheriff is only quoted as saying what will happen if the boy is found to be telling the truth and what will happen if he's found to be lying (5 years in prison).
Nothing is said about the most likely outcome that they won't be able to determine one way or the other - a he said/he said, if you'll pardon the paraphrasing.
I hope the Sheriff isn't hinting that anyone who complains of rape in a cell will get 5 years unless he can categorically prove it happened. I hope the Sheriff isn't telling us that the rape of prisoners, or at least the continual threat of it, is something that's just fine by him (or is it her?).
I think there is a double standard at play here. Prison rape against females does not garner the same "they had it coming" remarks, nor do the investigators treat female inmates' claims about assault at the hands of other inmates as potentially consensual. That may occur with male prison guards, but not with other inmates. The presumption is typically that the female inmate was raped by another inmate.
The biggest element of the double standard is the article itself. I read quite a few articles about rape every week. Rarely do I come across articles like this challenging the veracity of a female victim's claims, noting that she could be charged for making a false accusation or what amounts to implying no rape happened. It is only when there is a high-profile case that anyone even bothers to question the victim's claims, and even then the reporter typical interviews several victim advocates to dissuade people from jumping to the conclusion that the victim is lying.
Anon at 4:16: You are right, of course. I seriously think that this sort of attitude will deter young men from complaining about their victimization behind bars.
It's hard to believe prisoners aren't under camera surveillance.
Toy Soldier -- someone who follows this closely. Take TS's words seriously.
Anon at 4:20: good point. We ought to be able to do away with ALL prison rape by having cameras. Don't know why this should be a problem, given that there is an inherent lack of privacy in prison to begin with.
I wonder if the Sheriff could name for us all the female false accusers he's put away for 5 years.
That would go some distance in assuring us of the kind of man we are dealing with.
Several police forces in Australia have been in significant trouble over suicides of young aboriginal men in their custody(some of which were almost certainly murders by racist cops). Consider that the cops are looking out for number one here - themselves. They are responsible for the safety of prisoners in their care.
This is very much a case of CYA on the authorities behalf.
If the rape occurred I hope they are sued to kingdom come.
@Pierce...
It underscores the view that men are still looked upon as perpetrators, and aren't really victims of sexually based crimes, hence the smirks and jokes.
It goes as far as hatred where male victims of female abusers are concerned. In my state there are colleges teaching future welfare workers that male victims shouldn't be believed. Any male who claims to be a victim is apparently an abuser trying to hide their own perpetration. I was banned by the Alas feminist blog a number of years back after admitting to being raped by a woman as a child. The abuse and hatred was something to behold. The ban was preceded by a claim that I was a paedophile trying to hide behind a veneer of advocacy, a claim I was given no opportunity to reject. The site subsequently gutted my posts of anything meaningful including thousands of words citing research and the writing of specialists in the field.
Male sexual assault victims are doubly marginalised. Their own gender is held against them. The gender of their abuser, regardless of which it is, is also held against them. Male on male violence counts for nothing and female abusers are, apparently, harmless.
gwallan,
Sadly, I don't find it surprising that feminists responded to you in that way after you opened up about the abuse you suffered. Nothing feminists do - no depths they sink to - actually surprises me any more. By now I feel like I've seen it all. That they would cheer on a male Holocaust and the You-Go-Girl-Gestapo, I have no doubts. Absolutely none.
The reason they banned you was because they fear the truth coming out - that rather more males are abused by women than popular/feminist culture would have us believe. If this truth outs (and I believe it IS, slowly), it is a dangerous threat to their whole enterprise. Hence they silenced you where they could.
So much for compassion and understanding for victims, right?
That only applies when the victim is female, clearly.
There was a great deal of heartless 'prison rape jokes' regarding Leona Helmsley ( who it's said really DID experience prison rape), and Martha Stewart.
I haven't posted or read feminist blogs in quite some time because the reaction was as you described,g.
Things seem to be changing, however.
I took a look at Feminista recently, and was shocked at the comments following the Hofstra case.
MANY women were supportive of men and aknowledged their suffering from FRA. More than I thought would, anyway.
One woman even discussed how she warned her own teenaged sons about false rape accusers ---since she, herself, had made a false accusation in anger when a guy broke up with her.
SgtMom,
I think that was Feministing, was it not? Not that I frequent that place, but I do recall viewing that comment.
And yes, there were some comments from feminists which expressed their upset at the false accusation - but the concern was about hypothetical genuine victims who may not be believed, rather than the actual victims in this case (the men).
On the other hand, I saw feminist blogs claiming that a rape had actually occurred even after the woman had recanted and video evidence proved the mens' innocence. SOME of them will simply NOT LET GO once male guilt is assumed. I even saw a retelling of the incident, which was at odds with the woman's own version and the available evidence, which stated how the rape actually transpired. This was presented as truth, because apparently this feminist blogger who was not even there knows better than anyone else!
Also, at Feministing I saw plenty of comments along the lines of 'being falsely accused isn't that bad'. The hell it isn't ... do they not realise how this can completely destroy every facet of a man's life? And yeah, I'm sure that those who are convicted on the basis of false accusations can sleep soundly at night knowing a feminist doesn't think that their predicament is 'that bad'.
First of all -- Gwallan was the victim of a hideous crime committed by a WOMAN -- she was a RELATIVE.
SgMom, Leona Helmsley and Martha Stewart were NEVER sexually assaulted in prison. Stop spreading rumors. Go bake a turkey or something.
Collie
SgtMom - "There was a great deal of heartless 'prison rape jokes' regarding Leona Helmsley ( who it's said really DID experience prison rape), and Martha Stewart."
I'd bet that 90%(+) of them were made by women. I don't know how many men would even think of such things, but I'd have to imagine that even those who might would no better than to say so (PC being what it is).
Snark, you are correct. When it comes to FRA, to the feminists, men are flotsam -- as in "it's unfortunate that it happened but the problem is so insignificant compared with the rape epidemic." THAT is the prevailing attitude among rape feminists (feminists concerned about rape).
If the feminists would take this problem seriously, there would be precisely zero reasons for keeping this site going.
"would no better"
Obvously, that should read: "would know better".
And, I should know better than to post something without proof-reading it first.
Snark said...
So much for compassion and understanding for victims, right?
It's not just those males who are victims.
Consider that the male of the species has always been the more expendable. When the shit hits the fan it is male bodies and lives we sacrifice for the so called benefit of all.
Our lesser capacity to be compassionate toward men is partly a protective mechanism in recognition of that expendability.
The work of the Canadian Professor Adam Jones is well worth a look. He is a highly respected expert on genocide both modern and historical. His book Gendercide analyses many significant historical events involving large scale death for either gender. I highly recommend his article Effacing the Male which uses the Kosovo events as a demonstration of how the western media, and our communities more generally, are incapable of acknowledging any male suffering. Even when it's young boys.
Most recently the World Economic Forum published what it calls the "Global Gender Gap Report". What this report does is measure only disadvantages experienced by women and girls. Any disadvantage experienced by men or boys is deemed to be "parity" or equality. The UN and it's umbrella agencies use the same fundamental approach. Given that we can so easily and casually ignore any disadvantage, pain or suffering experienced by men or even boys and do it at such high levels it's easy to imagine that a global gendercide of all males is already underway.
Apologies...Bad link. Effacing the male is here...
http://adamjones.freeservers.com/effacing.htm
Not sure what happened there.
well, it's a matriarchy, and the forces of government, including police, serve that matriarchy
they sure aint protecting and serving me
americans -- especially american females, who are not subject either to the extant law or to the law's little "add ons" that you describe herein -- support the rape and torture of males in cages
keeps y'all in line -- their line
and dont think for an instant that they dont know that
especially ironic is the location, columbia county . . . columbia being one of the most common names associated with the goddess
even names cant hide from the truth
this site is desperately needed in a nation that's become as evil as ours, thank you for doing this brave work
@Pierce...
I'm not sure the URL for Effacing the Male is completely visible. My browser is truncating text on the right of the column.
Here 'tis...again!
Effacing the Male by Adam Jones
"The investigation regarding who will be charged will be announced in the next few days".
Why not immediately?
Anonymous said...
A quite brilliant article.
I really think a complaint would be in order here.
One has to wonder if there will be some huge nationaal feminist campaign over this outrage...
Dec 1, 2009 12:25:00 PM
"One has to wonder if there will be some huge nationaal feminist campaign over this outrage..."
Tell me you aren't holding your breath waiting.
Snark said:
Also, at Feministing I saw plenty of comments along the lines of 'being falsely accused isn't that bad'.
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But the comment WAS countered by another poster who maintained it certainly WAS bad.
Which is...something new, and encouraging.
Just a few years ago you would have NEVER found such comments, or if you did, the dissenting commenter would immediately be kicked off and a dozen critical comments would have followed.
It's a baby step.
I came across the discussion too late to comment, but I was intrigued by the woman who posted she made a false accusation and now warned her sons about false accusers. (Not one comment followed!)
I have wondered a THOUSAND times how any woman can do something like that KNOWING it could happen to an innocent man THEY care about.
I wish I had seen it sooner, I would have liked to engage the woman in a discussion about it.
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Anonymous said...
First of all -- Gwallan was the victim of a hideous crime committed by a WOMAN -- she was a RELATIVE.
(...are you talking to me? I already know all about female relatives making false accusations that put an innocent boy in jail and years of endless suffering on a registry. What's your point?)
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""SgMom, Leona Helmsley and Martha Stewart were NEVER sexually assaulted in prison. Stop spreading rumors. Go bake a turkey or something.""
Collie
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Sounds like you are already baked, Collie.
I said prison rape jokes were popular about Leona Helmsley and Martha Stewart.
Prison rape jokes are popular about EVERY well known person going to prison - male or female.
This is America, after all. We love our prisons and our prison rape jokes.
I remember reading magazine articles at the time that Leona Helmsley WAS assaulted in prison - although that was apparently wishful thinking instead of fact. Those WERE the days before internet verification may I remind you.
Kind of like how the Tiger Woods DV story is now circulating. Time will tell.
slwerner said...
SgtMom - "There was a great deal of heartless 'prison rape jokes' regarding Leona Helmsley ( who it's said really DID experience prison rape), and Martha Stewart."
I'd bet that 90%(+) of them were made by women. I don't know how many men would even think of such things, but I'd have to imagine that even those who might would no better than to say so (PC being what it is).
Dec 1, 2009 6:46:00 PM
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I don't so much hear women joking about other's women's prison time or prison rape.
Most women feel women are insulated from injustice, so it's no joke to realize the possibility exists.
Keep in mind Leona Helmsley and Martha Stewart's prison time was a while back.
Prison rape jokes are just recently starting to wane in popularity.
I think Abu Ghraib put a slight damper on the prison rape joke festivities.
There was something about seeing our 'prison rape joke culture' on display for all the world to see, with grinning, thumbs-up! American service men and women.
(In reversal, Obama seeks to block abuse photos - White House ...
May 13, 2009 ...
www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30725189/ -_
@SgtMom...
Apart from childhood trivialities I am not the victim of false allegation. Mind you, the hatred and derision I've experienced for daring to be honest about what Collie is actually referring to has left me awestruck at times.
My apologies if you were unaware.
SgtMom said:
I came across the discussion too late to comment, but I was intrigued by the woman who posted she made a false accusation and now warned her sons about false accusers. (Not one comment followed!)
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Yes, I noticed that too. Sometimes, their SILENCE, although a golden rarity, speaks more volumes ...
There was not one "you dumb fucking bint, you nearly ruined a man's life over some BULLSHIT. You should feel DEEPLY ashamed and humiliated."
When there should have been aplenty.
But I guess feminists 'let her off the hook' for her false accusation. Cause she's a 'sister'! She's on their 'team'! What does a man matter?
SgtMom or Snark,
Could you post a link to that discussion. I'd really like to take a look at it.
Thanks.
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