A few random notes:
The monstrous hit "New Moon" shattered box office expectations over the weekend, powered by its overwhelmingly double X chromosome fan base. In case you don't know, "New Moon" is anything but feminist fare. While I am certain that feminist "thinkers" (an oxymoron of the most grotesque kind) are weighing in on both sides of that question and doing what they do best -- making up their own "truth" as they go along, I need not support my assertion with evidence beyond noting the plot of the film: it is a story about a girl willing to give up her very mortal existence to forever be with the boy she loves. By comparison, "New Moon" makes "Snow White" and "Cinderella" look like anthems for feminist women. Which tells us what? Well, it's just one piece of evidence that tends to support the conclusion that traditional gender roles are still mainstream, and likely always will be, and that feminists wield power in the halls of government far disproportionate to their numbers.
There's a scene in "New Moon" where teens are watching a sad movie. The camera pans from one to the next until settling on Eric, the token Asian American student in the film. Eric is so touched by whatever it was they were watching, he has tears streaming down his face. At a crowded showing of the film over the weekend in a very large urban theater, that shot elicited a burst of high-pitched, girlish laughter. Men, and boys, aren't supposed to cry, and the girls found Eric's reaction "funny." You see, feminism, whose influence peaked thirty-five years ago, has done nothing except pay lip service to alter gender roles when it comes to men. Mind you, these weren't young men laughing; these were teen and slightly older females laughing at a young man for exhibiting what is widely believed to be a feminine characteristic. Feminism is content to leave unaltered what women have always done: keep men in their little, gender constricted box. This gives feminists the chance to angrily talk about how "masculinity" needs to be redefined along feminist lines.
If you want to see feminists' true colors, here's a little recent example of one of them yapping with her guard down. Joy Behar (who, by the way, recently took the president to task for playing too much all-male basketball and golf, thereby leaving the female power players at a supposed disadvantage) called stay-at-home dad Todd Palin -- the man who just last year held two jobs and worked occasional 85-hour weeks -- a "bum." That's right, a "bum." Never mind that the Palins have four underage children and that Mom is the family's principal breadwinner and that she's constantly on the road. In theory, one would think the feminists would hold Todd Palin out as a feminist icon instead of a "bum." Feminist ideology, gender equity, and insisting that every person be treated as a human being all go out the window any time one of them sees the slightest opportunity to engage in male bashing, which none of them seem able to resist.
Why do some colleges engage in at least an unofficial affirmative action for men? Is it to give struggling young men a needed boost, the way affirmative action is intended to help every other disadvantaged group? Heavens, no. The entire effort is motivated by a gynocentric view of the world: it's designed (1) to give female students what they want (a chance to get a date on Saturday night -- so admitting a few young men who don't really deserve to be there is like spreading a little peanut butter in a mouse trap), and (2) to give the schools what they really want (the best FEMALE students they can attract). Read this: "A few years back, a friend who teaches in a graduate political science department at a prominent university told me that the women who applied to his school's program were so much more qualified than the male applicants that if all applicants were selected solely on the basis of academic merit, no men would be admitted to the program. That would be fine with my friend except for the fact that highly qualified women will not attend a program that is all female. Thus this program actually engaged in what amounts to affirmative action for males in order to attract and keep highly qualified female students." (Don't you love how the speaker would be just "fine" with all female students? I'm sure she or he wouldn't be so "fine" with all males, or all whites, or all Christians. "Diversity," you see, is a code word for "fewer white heterosexual males.")
How would the following comments be received in the progressive news media if the genders were reversed? We KNOW how they'd be received -- with protests, disgust, and newspaper column after column about how "far" we still have to go to overcome sexism. But I'll bet you never even heard about these comments -- because it was a powerful women talking about a younger man: Last week, Hillary Clinton described the British foreign secretary David Miliband as “tall and dashing." She swooned: “If you saw him, it would be a big crush. I mean, he is so vibrant, vital, attractive and smart.” And if the genders were reversed, guess who'd have been among the first to complain that the speaker put "attractive" ahead of "smart." So much for feminist ideology, gender equity, and insisting that every person is a human being -- all that goes out the window any time one of them sees Prince Charming.
Monday, November 23, 2009
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When I tearfully asked why I was rushed to my new duty station - there was no cold weather gear for women, the barracks had broken heaters in December - in the coldest continental state in the US - I was told by the CBPO commander that "Local girls won't date military guys".
It was during the end of Viet Nam, and any guy with short hair (military) was treated like crap.
I was pretty much being told I was a government sponsored 'comfort woman'.
I'm not offering this perspective as a "Ho's vs. Bros" debate.
It's just indicative of how we are ALL being manipulated by the powers that be.
For the story on affirmative action for men in colleges: I get the picture in my head of the star seal in the aquarium show (women) being rewarded with fish (men) after they've performed well. The aquarium cares about the star seal, not the fish; it buys the fish only to keep the seal happy.
Still, I don't think college girls are being manipulated -- they genuinely want guys around, for the same reason most people want members of the opposite sex around. And the guys aren't being manipulated if they are being admitted even though their records don't compare to some women who are rejected.
I see two important messages here: college administrators couldn't care less about gender equity except that the market demads it (once again, the free market is telling political correctness to take a hike -- but never fear, the government will soon put a stop to it), and young men are telling colleges that they don't offer anything meaningful outside of engineering and the sciences. Any discipline with the words "social" or "studies" as part of it is suspect to most men.
So what else is new? Just more double standards. Feminists can be sexist and can stereotype and constrict men (Hillary and Behar); and colleges are gynocentric; and the average person is OK with the old gender constructs (New Moon).
You know where men's problems lie? With progressive government and educational settings that insist on social engineering to elevate women and to put down men.
Agree entirely that both chivalry and feminism seek to restrict the range of behaviour which men are allowed to exhibit; gender, if you will.
It's just one of many common threads running through chivalry and into feminism. Feminism was never anti-chivalry. It is chivalry taken to an irrational extreme, where traditional female privileges could be entrenched while traditional male privileges removed (and in many cases, given to women).
I was pretty much being told I was a government sponsored 'comfort woman'.
"Comfort women" weren't killed on the battlefield the way soldiers aka men were.
I was born during the vietnam war. Very few military personell had it good. I thank all of you for your service, which cannot be appreciated enough. I also apologize for everything you suffered.
I hope you can find peace.
@SgtMom...
Please refrain from this type of analogy. Your experience was in no way comparable to that of the countless S E Asian women and girls who were brutally subjected to this barbaric practice by the Japanese military.
"feminism, whose influence peaked thirty-five years ago,"
what do you mean? It has been steadily increasing for the last 40 years.
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"there was no cold weather gear for women"
why do you specify 'women'?
Norm said...
"there was no cold weather gear for women"
why do you specify 'women'?
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Because men had been stationed at that base for over 20 years. They had parkas, they had wool pants and thermal underwear, they had ski pants and 'bunny boots' - in other words they were ACCOMMODATED.
The first women were rushed there in 1971, with NO accommodations, NO cold weather gear, our barracks had been out of use for years and the heaters didn't work properly.
I wore a skirt, nylons and high heels to leap over snow drifts and walk to work in sub-sub zero wind chill weather.
The reason given was "the boys are lonely - townies won't date military".
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My point wasn't to boo-hoo about it 30 years after the fact - my point was -
People get used. Gender is irrelevant.
'Comfort women' didn't get killed on the battlefield, and 'affirmative action' men aren't being killed on campuses!
That doesn't mean anyone LIKES being USED!
Who is going to build the roads, repair bridges and erect buildings and houses in the future is shaping up to be an interesting question.
I've read that 75% of American youth are physically unfit for military service.
Organize and vote. Establish court watcher systems. Speak up. Write letters.
Take back the night. Take back your sons.
Remember not all women are your enemies.
gwallan said...
@SgtMom...
Please refrain from this type of analogy. Your experience was in no way comparable to that of the countless S E Asian women and girls who were brutally subjected to this barbaric practice by the Japanese military.
Nov 24, 2009 3:52:00 AM
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Please refrain from telling me what my experience was or was not about.
You. weren't. there.
I doubt anyone was under the impression I was claiming to have experienced kidnapping and brutal rape.
I WAS comparing my experience to that of 'affirmative action' men accepted into college programs - except I doubt any of them have been directly told they are there to keep the gals happy, not to mention they have a choice of whether or not to accept being used in that way.
Anonymous said...
I was born during the vietnam war. Very few military personell had it good. I thank all of you for your service, which cannot be appreciated enough. I also apologize for everything you suffered.
I hope you can find peace.
Nov 24, 2009 3:03:00 AM
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That's a very nice thing to say.
Thank you.
I have no regrets - there's nothing like the military to teach profound "Life just isn't fair" lessons.
I'm a better person for it.
SgtMom,
Agreed. I spent several years in, during the 1st gulf war, and my dad, mom, brother and sister-in-law all served (all navy by the way). :)
Some things are just worth it. That is one of them for our family.
@SgtMom...
I spent a couple of years in a relationship with the daughter of one of those women. YOU HAVE NO CONCEPT!
I will thank you to not repeat the analogy.
The Archivist said...
SgtMom,
Agreed. I spent several years in, during the 1st gulf war, and my dad, mom, brother and sister-in-law all served (all navy by the way). :)
Some things are just worth it. That is one of them for our family.
Nov 24, 2009 5:46:00 PM
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My Dad didn't want me to to join. He thought women were treated badly during WWII. My recruiter assured him "It's not like that anymore! It's all changed!"
Gotta love those recruiters!
My Marine son-in-law has 18 days and a wake up left in Afghanistan. He wasn't supposed to home til April - this is one of those Christmas stories they'll bore their kids with someday.
My daughter was 4 months pregnant when he deployed last spring.
It's been deeply moving, the many people who thoughtfully thank my daughter for HER sacrifice, as well as her husband's service.
I thought having their first child with him in a war zone would be awful, but it's been a greatly profound experience.
It's been deeply moving, the many people who thoughtfully thank my daughter for HER sacrifice, as well as her husband's service.
I've run in to very few people who aren't appreciative of what some give for this country. Of course, they are the same ones who continually want to take others rights away from them, all in the name of some cause or another (like lowering the bar for rape convictions, which, coincidentally, increases the number of FRA's). I just walk away from those.
The Archivist said...
"" they are the same ones who continually want to take others rights away from them, all in the name of some cause or another (like lowering the bar for rape convictions, which, coincidentally, increases the number of FRA's). I just walk away from those.
Nov 25, 2009 10:26:00 AM
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It was pretty brave for FRS to post Derek Logue's article. I have been on other discussion threads he participates on for several years now.
Most people lose their collective minds when the topic of child molestation is mentioned - men as much, if not more, than women.
I was molested as a little girl, so it is difficult for me to support what a person convicted of that crime has to say.
But I do.
And the MRA movement had better start listening to them as well.
We have all come to view their treatment as social parriahs as deserved and acceptable.
As more and more of their basic civil rights are removed, the more it is applauded by law and order types.
It never fails, however, that when rights are taken from one group, it's just a matter of time before they are taken from another.
Look at Michael Jackson - at the time he was accused I was well involved in FRA, and spotted it as a lie immediately.
Most people, in spite of totally obvious evidence, still believed he was guilty.
The sleazeball prosecutor was able to use public sentiment to introduce his past unproven accusations into the current trial.
Not a peep out of anybody about it being unconstitutional and highly illegal.
He was a weirdo, a child molester, so it was OK.
Now it is acceptable practice to introduce past unfounded claims against ANY man accused of rape.
It's EXACTLY like the Martin Niemoller poem "First they came for the communists". en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martin_Niemöller
Actually, first they came for the sex offenders.
Sex offenders being considered the lowest form of life were expendable. NO ONE spoke up on their behalf.
Well -- now they're coming for the falsely accused, and THERE IS NO ONE SPEAKING UP.
Here's another telling article by
Derek Logue, comparing Nazi era sex offender laws to our current ones - it's a scary read.
http://www.oncefallen.com/NaziSOLaws.html
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