A point we emphasize on this blog repeatedly is the wrongheadedness of the Chicken Littles who foment anti-male hysteria and warn women, in a multitude of ways, to be wary of predatory men and boys. The news media, eager to sell papers or snag viewers, gladly fans the flames of this hysteria by, for example, treating every accusation of rape as if a crime must have occurred but not giving the subsequent revelation of the accusation's falsity the same sensationalism. The fact is, in recent years yellow journalism has developed a misandric stench. Anti-male hysteria is the engine that drives the imaginary rape culture, and false rape claims are its noxious emissions.
Let's repeat a point we've made many times. It is beyond dispute that innocent men are more vulnerable to the criminals than innocent women. Check out a source feminists could not dispute, J. Friedman, J. Valenti, Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape (2008) at 23: "Men are 150 percent more likely to be the victims of violent crimes than women are. . . . . Men are more likely to be victimized by a stranger (63 percent of violent victimizations) . . . ."
Here's an article that talks about crime on college campuses that rightly puts things in perspective: "Parents and students should be aware of four important points about crimes at colleges: Four of five cases are student on student. Most victims are men. More offenses occur off campus. Alcohol is involved 90 percent of the time."
For you parents, as we've previously explained, it's our sons more than our daughters who need to "take back the night." But, gee whiz, that angle doesn't sell newspapers, does it?
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Maybe if we keep repeating it, it will sink in: our sons need to 'take back the night' more than our daughters
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Stop! This is interfering with my worldview of women as victims.
So it's men are the primary victims? Well, tough luck - most of the perpetrators are men, so it is still men's fault. Men need to fix their own problem.
/sarcasm off
If it's male-on-male violence, it cancels itself out. Never mind that the victims are just as innocent as FEMALE victims. The fact that they are male nullifies their victim status.
Point well made Norm. And I really think that inane thinking underlies much of this.
"So it's men are the primary victims? Well, tough luck - most of the perpetrators are men, so it is still men's fault. Men need to fix their own problem."
So it's humans are the primary victims? Well, tough luck - most of the perpetrators are humans, so it is still humans' fault. Humans need to fix their own problem.
There, fixed that for you. I guess we just got rid of all the problems everywhere.
chortle
Atom, why didn't you keep the Georgia Girl name, I'm curious? It's like a company with a bad reputation that tries to change its name. It really isn't fooling anyone.
Darling, had Atom intended to "fool" anyone, she would not have divulged her true identity. You can call her Queen-GG if you like :)
Our sone need to do more than take back the night. They need to take back their respect, dignity, power and, everything that makes a man a man.
Take back our balls.
At lot of "male on male" violence is sometimes at the instigation of women ("let's you and him fight over me!").
Maybe a 'false rape' Take Back The night rally is in order.
Just throwing out wild ideas, but how about an enmasse false rape accusation day, where men descend upon college campuses and police stations to lodge false rape accusations.
A national Duke LaCrosse false accusation picketing day (only with approval of the Duke victims) or something similar, on anniversaries of rape cases.
An "I was falsely accused" memorial wall with portraits of falsely accused (this is a wonderful site: http://books.google.com/books?id=RRoiDl9rJtoC&dq=%22Taryn+Simon%22&printsec=frontcover&source=bl&ots=AmGl0E7EAl&sig=MnDrpvVMrQn141Lc1Tjs3ihW-qI&hl=en&ei=ULDLSpvxJ4KxtgeQ8IXtAQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=14#v=onepage&q=&f=false
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