Monday, May 11, 2009

Do women really need 'women-only' taxis? Ask the male taxi drivers falsely accused of rape

A women-only cab company in the UK is another in a wearying cavalcade of cultural manifestations proving beyond all doubt that women are irrationally fearful of men. "Its lurid pink cars and women drivers were launched to provide a safe and hassle-free service for women of all ages worried about getting into taxis driven by men." The company founders "set up the service after their daughters and friends spoke of their unease at being the last one left in a taxi with a male driver after a night out." The company's drivers "only pick up women members and can turn down male customers." Because, of course, women, and only women, are at risk of violence.

I know this goes against their rape-culture metanarrative, and I am sorry to muddy up a perfectly good victim fetish, but anyone not intoxicated on Women's Studies courses knows that innocent men are victims of violence far more often than women. There is no dispute about that whatsoever. You can even consult sources that feminists would consider unimpeachable: Yes Means Yes: Visons of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape, by Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica Vallenti (2008) at page 23: "Men are 150 percent more likely to be the victims of violent crimes than women. . . . Men are more likely to be victimized by a stranger . . . ."

Did you get that? Yet each year we have an entire month dedicated to women's fear of men under the guise of raising awareness of sexual assault. Some hotels have "women-only" floors to "protect" women from males. Some beaches are off-limits to men. And now we have a cab company that practices apartheid in favor of women for their supposed safety.

The result? Well, for purposes of this blog, a false rape culture, of course. With all the irrational fear-mongering Chicken Littles running about warning women not that "the sky is falling!" but that "men can't be trusted!" the slightest whiff of a rape allegation is automatically believed, and the male-as-predator hysteria gives automatic plausibility to every rape claim, even the ones that are false. The problem is, when a rape accuser is automatically believed, the man or boy she accuses is automatically branded a "rapist" in the court of last resort, the dinner table where clucking tongues pass judgment on everything under the sun based on nothing more than vague, unsubstantiated feelings.

The irony is that it's men, not women, who probably need gender-segregated taxis. Male taxi drivers are among the groups frequently targeted for false rape claims.

Don't want to pay your fare? If you're a woman, just cry "rape!" and destroy a man's life to save a few dollars. Need a handy male to accuse of rape to explain some illicit sexual encounter? Your friendly cab driver will do just fine, thank you.

Ask Clive Bishop if you don't believe me. He's the cab driver who picked up 17-year-old Kirsty Palmer and a friend and took them to a nightclub. At 1 a.m., Palmer's friend called him and asked to pick her up. He reluctantly agreed. Palmer was very drunk and had already been sick. When Mr. Bishop dropped her off he made sure that she got to her door. The next morning the police arrived at Mr. Bishop's residence and arrested him for allegedly raping Palmer. “They took scrapings from my fingernails. Then they took some hair, samples of my pubic hair and then a swab from my penis. It was humiliating. I felt like I was guilty when I knew I’d done nothing wrong.” Palmer maintained her story for three full months, by which time forensics had all but cleared Mr. Bishop. After six weeks his possessions and car were returned to him, minus the back seats. He lost his business and his life has been turned upside down. Unlike victims of even non-violent rape, Mr. Bishop was not entitled to compensation from the Criminal Injuries Compensation Authority.

And then there's Mohammed Taj, the cab driver who tried to help a woman but who was falsely accused of rape instead. He was arrested and subjected to an intimate medical examination. Thankfully, modern technology -- here a video camera -- showed the woman transmogrify herself into a "victim" only when police came around. The woman was sentenced to six months imprisonment but a sexual assault counselor complained that “if people are reading that these allegations are false and someone gets six months, it leads them not to report any incidents.”

And remember the the cab driver who had police storm into his home after a young woman accused him of raping her? This occurred after an altercation where the driver threatened to go to the police over an unpaid fare. The woman went to the police instead and falsely accused him of rape. “I felt like I’d lost all my rights when I was suddenly arrested. I just wanted to get paid for the trip,” the cab driver said.

Then there was Sherekhan Kali, the cab driver who was falsely accused of rape by Joanne Rye despite the fact that he was nowhere near the scene of the alleged crime at the time of the supposed attack. Nevertheless, he "was arrested at his home and taken to the police station where intimate samples, DNA and fingerprints were taken." After the ordeal was over, Mr Kali was frightened about having women in his cab. But unlike the women-only cab company, he really couldn't refuse under law, could he?

Let's not forget the taxi driver who threatened to take Florence Healy to the police for refusing to pay her fare. Healy, in turn, tried to destroy the driver's life by shouting "rape." Over a €13 taxi fare. She was given a custodial sentence despite her attorney's plea that "his client was a single mother and her child would suffer if she received a custodial sentence."

Oh, and sometimes the false rape accuser is a taxi driver herself, like Mary Jo Stolle, who "provided intense details and helped officials create a precise composite drawing of the man she said [sexually] attacked her, down to a teardrop tattoo on his cheek." The problem is, she made up the whole thing. Turns out she's a serial false accuser and "the details in Stolle's false report mirror those she's made in jurisdictions 'from New York through the Western States.'"

On and on it goes. And those are just some of the recent cases. Still think we need women-only cabs? If these examples aren't enough to make you sit up and question whether this apartheid for women is unnecessary, unfair to men, and a step in precisely the wrong direction for women after all the progress they've made kicking down gender barriers, ask yourself this: how far must society go to placate the members of one group who harbor irrational fears about another? Suppose, for example, that whites insisted on "whites-only" cabs for security reasons -- since we're constantly told that blacks commit more crimes than whites on a per capita basis. What do you imagine would be the reaction to that? Or suppose women wanted to ban Mexican housecleaning personnel from their "women-only" hotel floors -- due to fears that Mexicans supposedly steal more than whites. Wouldn't it be nice to know that "one of them" isn't walking on the floor?

In contrast to the "fairer" sex, men seem not to fear other men or women, despite the overwhelming evidence suggesting they should be wary of both. This women-only cab company is just further evidence that perhaps the day has come when society needs to stop feeding women's irrationalities, and when men finally need to wake up and realize that sometimes the predators wear heels.

18 comments:

Doom said...

No worries, really. When sharia law is fully embedded into English law, not only will feminists get segregation, they will also be "protected" at all times. And, they will never have to worry, so long as they are with male family members (hahaha) or in a large enough herd of chattel. Let them eat freedom.

And, isn't it odd that they hate men yet love islam? I guess the shrew really does like spankings. Meh... Legalize it, they'll love it. Then again, muslim woman count themselves happier than feminists. I guess it makes sense in a twisted way.

Archivist said...

Well-written, Doom.

Anonymous said...

Some feminists have already started getting prepared for sharia law. They are using cases where women in islam women are punished for disobeying the laws. Unlike the laws we have (english law), sharia law in Iran does not, in my opinion, discriminate between the genders.

Oft-unreported: Men stoned to death in Iran for adultery


http://news.mensactivism.org/node/12432

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/05/05/AR2009050501136_pf.html

Anonymous said...

Not quite Anon.

'TEHRAN (Reuters) - A man was stoned to death in Iran for adultery but the woman involved in the case repented, the judiciary said on Tuesday, suggesting her life was spared.


She repented, while it appears the man was unable to repent. Sounds like a type of vagina pass to me.


The Islamic Republic has been heavily criticized by the European Union, rights groups and the United Nations for stoning convicted criminals and there are official Iranian recommendations the practice should not occur.

Asked whether he could confirm that a man charged with adultery was stoned to death in the northern city of Rasht during the Iranian month that ended on March 20, judiciary spokesman Alireza Jamshidi told a news conference:

"What you said about stoning is correct. But the woman repented ... Among the instances in which the sentence is not performed is when there is a repentance by the individual involved."

Fidelbogen said...

SO many women concoct rape lies on the spur of the moment, for the lightest of reasons, and with SO LITTLE FORESIGHT about sustaining the fraud, that it fatally compromises the feminist claim that "women don't lie about rape."

Feminists will insist that reporting to the police and undergoing examination is SO traumatic that no woman who was not a genuine rape victim would willingly suffer through the process. That is the basis of their claim.

But evidence to the contrary is abundant, as we see time and time again.

Thus: either the process is not really so traumatic, or the women aren't such tender blossoms after all. . .

Any way you slice it, the feminist claim loses credibility.

sweetebonyrose said...

...cultural manifestations proving beyond all doubt that women are irrationally fearful of men.It's not so much that we are fearful of men, it's that we are taught that we should be. Think about it. Parents who have daughters are more protective of her then those who have a son. they are taught that they should be wary of boys and men and that "they are only after on thing". They are taught that they should be careful in the way that they behave and are dressed lest they attract the wrong attention. Now think about how parents treat their sons. Are they taught to be fearful of women in that same sense that girls are taught to be fearful of boys? But hey, I'm a woman, so who knows....

In contrast to the "fairer" sex, men seem not to fear other men or women, despite the overwhelming evidence suggesting they should be wary of both.Of course men aren't taught to fear other men, like women aren't taught to fear other women. One of the main stereotypes of men is that they are supposed to be brave. Another male stereotypes is that they are not supposed to be scared of the "weaker sex". If you were to ask a guy on the street if he should be wary of women in the sense that you're speaking of, he'll probably say no.

This fear of men isn't new at all. I think it's one of the excuses that men from the past used to oppress women.

Here's a quote from Thomas Paine. Though it doesn't express a fear, it's still really telling.

Pity the tender sex because they have to deal with men who are at once their seducers and their judges

Jeff said...

You are incorrect, women are not taught by thier family to fear men unless thier mother is a femanist.

The reason special signifigance is placed on daughters is hold-over from when money exchanged hands in the form of dowerys. Dowerys were higher, and often only paid, if the daughter was "pure" (virgin).

"This fear of men isn't new at all. I think it's one of the excuses that men from the past used to oppress women."

I think that this statement is pretty telling as to your views on men.

Sgt. Mom said...

Whoa, whoa, whoa, back up there pardner.

My DAD had me so scared of men I hid in the girls room every time one tried to talk to me in school.

My Dad was a really, really bad boy - which is why God cursed him with four daughters. He was petrified at the thought of "some s.o.b." treating his daughters the way he had treated someone else's daughter.

Pay back, as they say, is a bitch...or two.

He moved us waaaay out in the country and scared off any guy who dared make the trip out there.

One of the reasons I joined the military was to get away from his over protectiveness - he didn't believe I was ready to date even after I turned 18.

I know he was an extreme case, in hind sight I'm very grateful - he DID spare me a great deal of potential bimbo treatment.

Being stationed on an isolated Air Force Base with 7,000 men and fewer than 150 women, all I can say is Thanks, Dad.

In the good old days that was a father's job.

wolfboy69 said...

"We are, as a sex, infinitely superior to men..." Elizabeth Stanton, One Woman, One Vote, Wheeler, p. 58

"In a patriarchal society all heterosexual intercourse is rape because women, as a group, are not strong enough to give meaningful consent." Catherine MacKinnon in Professing Feminism: Cautionary Tales from the Strange World of Women's Studies, p. 129

"All men are rapists and that's all they are." Marilyn French in People, February 20, 1983



That last one is my favorite. And those are words coming from women that are/were influential in the movement. So, it is women teaching women to fear men, not something that men are actually doing.

What this piece shows, it that discrimination is perfectly acceptable, as long as it is discriminating against men.

In the United states:

Number of women only colleges: 18
Number of men only colleges: 0

Personally, If I was a man, I'd call for a cab from this company, then when they refused because I was a man, I'd sue them under the EOC discrimination laws.

Pierce Harlan said...

Sweetebonyrose, you were going well until this: "This fear of men isn't new at all. I think it's one of the excuses that men from the past used to oppress women."

Come on, you're better than that! That's from the Feminsism 101 playbook -- it's trite, it's mean-spirited, and it's completely non-factual. The fear of men has been instilled in girls to keep them from getting pregnant -- because, until 1973 (Roe v. Wade), girls had much to lose by getting pregnant.

To suggest that men act as a class to oppress women -- or, for that matter, to do ANYTHING -- strains credulity. In fact, it's men who are the ones protective of women when it comes to the bad men. Feminists need to be called on their idiocy every time they start unfairly gender stereotypying "men" in this manner.

As for the purorted past oppression, guess what? There was none. But maybe I'm not getting it -- which "oppression" do you have in mind? You mean when my grandmother and all the women of her day stayed in the warmth and safety their homes to raise the kids while the men risked their lives in dangerous jobs? THAT "oppression"? Even today, 93% of all work fatality are to males. THAT "oppression"? (Oh, and the dangerous jobs -- almost all held by MEN -- pay better than the cushy jobs, thus accounting for a chunk of the gender wage gap.)

Here's the part they don't teach in Womyn's Studies programs: men and women throughout history have been assigned gender roles (which, by the way, change from time to time) -- BUT with the complicit agreement of the other gender.

Did you get that?

Do you really think it was our idea to risk our necks hunting the wild bull while you all stayed home in the warm cave with the kids? Hint, hint: we did whatver the hell you all wanted -- so that you'd mate with us. And that, my dear Sweetebonyrose, is the story of gender relations throughout all history. Tell your Womyn's Studies professors to shove their revisionist history up their constipated, man-hating asses.

sweetebonyrose said...

Sgt. Mom, that's a good example of what I was talking about. Yes there's the fear of getting pregnant, also (and I guess this is coming from personal experience), there's the fear of unwanted attention if you don't dress or act demurely. In fact I think it's not only the fear of getting pregnant, but the fear of her loosing her virginity period - even though for the sons there wouldn't be that same fear.

Now let me explain about the oppression thing.

I have nothing against men and no there wasn't a mass conspiracy against women. However, that doesn't mean that everything was honkey-dorey for them either. The belief that women needed to be protected I think led to extreme overprotectiveness that wouldn't be tolerated today.

You mean when my grandmother and all the women of her day stayed in the warmth and safety their homes to raise the kids while the men risked their lives in dangerous jobs?I often hear that arguement. It's deeper than that though. What if another woman in your grandmother's day wanted to be a doctor, a pilot, or God-forbid a politician? It'll be different if she did want to be a stay-at-home Mom or a Mom right off the bat. But what if she didn't want that for herself. If I'm correct there was this old belief that women only went to college to find a husband, nothing more.

I give feminism credit for giving women a way to collectively voice their opinions, ideas, and concerns at a time when their point of views weren't being considered or even valued. Women had to conform to these ridged ideas and expectations. That they couldn't be anything other than wives and mothers. I have no problem with a woman being a wife and mother if it was her CHOICE. While women have worked outside the home before feminism, I think the movement showed that it was ok for women to do so without criticism. Feminism showed women that it was alright for them to strive for the things that socially, they weren't supposed to. They had freedom to be who they wanted to be without being judged, freedom to speak their mind and voice their opinions without being shot down simply because they were women. They could be true to themselves.

Pierce Harlan said...

Don't credit feminism -- feminism is reactive. Credit technology (inventions by, ahem, those terrible men you have such a problem with) that freed up women from spending most of their day on child-caring, and also credit the incredible expansion of the economy that made it possible for women to find spots in the work world. With all the white collar and clerical jobs today, women flood the workplace. If we still had the same number of blue collar, physically demanding jobs we had back in 1900, you'd see far fewer women working -- by their own choice.

sweetebonyrose said...

Wolfboy, I see those same quotes quite often. Do I believe them, no. And I'm sure that if you Google enough, you'll find very misogynistic quotes as well. Here are a couple by Freidrich Nietzsche.

The Germans are like women, you can scarcely ever fathom their depths -- they haven't any.

God created woman. And boredom did indeed cease from that moment -- but many other things ceased as well! Woman was God's second mistake.
There are MANY quotes on this website some of which are....interesting.

About the college thing. Last time I checked, there are 4 all-male colleges left, but anyway. I'm not sure if I can explain this well but here it goes. It isn't really so much discrimination as it is that people are just turned off by it. Back then, the reason colleges and schools were all-male was because women weren't allowed or encouraged to attend. The few colleges that did admit women were women only colleges. The idea of the all-male school has "bagged". You should read this article from the New York Times.

Here's another good articleSo, it is women teaching women to fear men, not something that men are actually doing.Considering that all women aren't feminists and with fathers and parents like St. Mom's and mine, I beg to differ. I think BOTH sexes are guilty of doing that.

sweetebonyrose said...

Pierce, yes those inventions helped, but it was more than that though.

I credit feminism with showing women that it was OK for them to work outside the home and that they can be something other than wives and mothers (like I said, not that there's anything wrong with that), like doctors, polic officers, CEOs.

Pierce Harlan said...

Sweetebonyrose, we don't see eye-to-eye on a lot of things, but I do appreciate your contributions.

I think the reality is that feminism would have erupted 500 years ago if the economy and technology had cooperated. And by "feminism" I mean just what you said, freeing women from tje domestic sphere. (Men -- we'll never be freed from our non-domestic sphere, and maybe that's because our ambitions, our aggressiveness and competitiveness won't allow it.) There was no concerted desire to hold women back on the part of men, and in fact, early feminism's opponents were women.

Renee said...

Pierce, I appreciate not only your own opinions but the fact that you don't outright attack and insult me for my opinions. It's really refreshing to have a mature discussion.

P.S. This is sweetebonyrose, I just logged in.

wolfboy69 said...

renee/sbr,

I'm sure we could keep going back and forth on this forever. :)

Did women have it bad 'back then'? Yes, but so did the majority of men. Who has it worse now? I'd still put it at 50/50.

This is the thing. I made this comment to someone on another site:


This isn't about who is the bigger victim. This is about humanity. But when the 'rape industry', minimizes the amount and frequency of false rape claims, they are completely ignoring a class of victims, where 99.99% of all the accused are men. The problem with that is, there is no support system for them, and when the topic is brought up, as a man, you are called a 'rape apologist', 'misogynist'..... and those are the nice things.

Less than .01% of men rape. Yet all men are expected to get involved and change the 'rape culture'. We are to be taught what is appropriate and what isn't. The only problem with that, is that I already know that and DON'T rape. Criminals and sociopaths rape. But for all the talk in how men have to be educated, I don't hear the same thing for women. No recommendations on risky behaviors that rapists look for. Almost every single false accusation on here either includes alcohol, or a lie to cover up some wrongdoing by the woman. Where is the education on that? Where and when will women be held accountable for that? You want men in this country to care about rape victims? Then start by telling Gender Feminists (NOW is filled with them) to stop demonizing men, and to stop saying they speak for all women. Men will only put up with being called vile names for so long, before they will stop listening (apathy) and caring about the subject.

See, the problem is, rape and false accusations of rape are the same problem. If you reduce the number of false rape accusations, you increase the believability of true rape victims, and we get more rapists off the street.

Regret the next day isn't rape. Drunken sex, unless the woman is passed out or completely incoherent, isn't rape. This goes back to the education issue.

As it stands now, cases like Duke and Tawana Brawley, have seriously damaged how 'rape' is seen in this country. And the Duke 88 didn't help one bit. And those professors attitudes were splashed all over the media, and in the end, never apologized. Some to this day still proclaim those young men guilty. And that is the attitude that the majority of women in this country don't stand up and tell to shut it. So to the majority of men, that is women's attitude. If the majority of women aren't happy with that, then maybe they should do something about it.


My apologies for the long rant. Equality is what it is all about. But modern feminism, who drive the 'rape industry' and the discussion about it, don't want equality. They want equality on demand. And that isn't equality. That's favoritism.

gwallan said...

Jeff said...You are incorrect, women are not taught by thier family to fear men unless thier mother is a femanist.

The reason special signifigance is placed on daughters is hold-over from when money exchanged hands in the form of dowerys. Dowerys were higher, and often only paid, if the daughter was "pure" (virgin).

"This fear of men isn't new at all. I think it's one of the excuses that men from the past used to oppress women."

I think that this statement is pretty telling as to your views on men.
It is also inaccurate. The "fear" is a creation of Victorian times and chivalry-ridden churches of that time and is now enhanced by sensationalist, pervasive media and pandering politicians. I suggest examining the portrayals of men in art and literature over the past millenium for evidence of this. As a single example how is it that childrens stories, fairy stories, nursery rhymes warn children away from women moreso than men? And nobody can tell me it was men passing those stories on to children.