Thursday, April 23, 2009

Men, not women, need to 'take back the night'

Here's another in a wearying cavalcade of articles about violence against women, and this one, like all the rest, is premised on the supposed fact that women are the primary targets of violence, and that women, and only women, have the most to fear: "Most women . . . still feel afraid to walk alone . . . ."

Well, I guess I don't exactly know what that means. Does it mean women are afraid to walk alone on a dark deserted street? Good. They should be. So should men. But if it means women are generally afraid to walk alone in a relatively safe neighborhood, it is irrational.

I know this goes against their entire rape culture metanarrative, and I am sorry to muddy up a perfectly good victim fetish, but anyone not intoxicated on Womyn's Studies knows that innocent men are victims of violence far more often than women. There is no dispute about that. None whatsoever. You can even consult sources that feminists would consider unimpeachable: Yes Means Yes: Visons of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape, by Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica Vallenti (2008) at page 23: "Men are 150 percent more likely to be the victims of violent crimes than women. . . . Men are more likely to be victimized by a stranger . . . ."

Did you get that? Yet we have an entire month dedicated to women's fear of men. The result? Well, for purposes of this blog, the result is to help create a false rape culture. With all the irrational fear-mongering Chicken Littles running about warning women not that "the sky is falling!" but that "men can't be trusted!" the slightest whiff of a rape allegation is automatically believed. The male-as-predator hysteria gives automatic plausibility to every rape claim, even the ones that are false. And when a rape accuser is automatically believed, the man or boy she accuses is automatically branded a rapist in the court of last resort, the American dinner table where clucking tongues pass judgment on everything under the sun based on nothing more than vague, unsubstantiated feelings. And that is intolerable on any level.

So ask yourself, in light of the facts, which class of citizens should most fear walking alone?

And which class of citizens has given in to irrational fear-mongering?

Further, why does the class of citizens least victimized by violent crime not seem to give a damn about the safety of the class that is actually most victimized? (That's actually a very interesting question, isn't it?)

Then, after you've answered all those questions honestly, the following question should answer itself: Do women really need to "take back the night," or has it been theirs all along?

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

We men NEED to not only take back the night but, also the day as well. To quote one of the most ardent male haters known;

"To be rapeable, a position that is social, not biological, defines what a woman is." -- Andrea Dworkin

"Q: People think you are very hostile to men. A: I am." -- Andrea Dworkin

"Men use the night to erase us." -- Andrea Dworkin


and yet another;

"Men who are unjustly accused of rape can sometimes gain from the experience." - Catherine Comins

Is it any wonder how such hysteria of "women as victims" got started?

Pierce Harlan said...

The following is where that quote appears -- a Time Magazine article. I have a link for it on our false rape primer. Here's the actual paragraph from the article. I know nothing more about her than what is said in this article -- but based on this alone, I would conclude she's a kook:


"Catherine Comins, assistant dean of student life at Vassar, also sees some value in this loose use of 'rape.' She says angry victims of various forms of sexual intimidation cry rape to regain their sense of power. 'To use the word carefully would be to be careful for the sake of the violator, and the survivors don't care a hoot about him.' Comins argues that men who are unjustly accused can sometimes gain from the experience. 'They have a lot of pain, but it is not a pain that I would necessarily have spared them. I think it ideally initiates a process of self-exploration. "How do I see women?" "If I didn't violate her, could I have?" "Do I have the potential to do to her what they say I did?" Those are good questions.'"

Anonymous said...

Men need to take back their balls. Then they can take back the night.

Anonymous said...

Catherine Comins is a feminazi piece of crap.

Elusive Wapiti said...

"She says angry victims of various forms of sexual intimidation cry rape to regain their sense of power."
So let me get this straight...women who felt victimized by "sexual intimidation"...whatever that is...turn around and victimize innocent men to feel better about themselves? And somehow this is okay?

The farther men stay away from women such as this the better off we'll be.

Anonymous said...

Elusive,the problem is we do not know who these women are or, where they are. We can look at a sex offender registry and see plenty of male sex offenders ( how many of them are really sex offenders is anyone's guess )but, there is no registry for false rape accuser or false accusers of any crime(s).

Anonymous said...

Elusive,the problem is we do not know who these women are or, where they are. We can look at a sex offender registry and see plenty of male sex offenders ( how many of them are really sex offenders is anyone's guess )but, there is no registry for false rape accuser or false accusers of any crime(s).

Anonymous said...

"To be rapeable, a position that is social, not biological, defines what a woman is." -- Andrea Dworkin

Have you ever seen Andrea Dworkin? She wasn't rapeable or otherwise fuckable at all. No man belonging to the human species could maintain an erection in her presence.

Why is it that the women who claim to be most afraid of being raped are the ones who couldn't get raped if they paid the rapist to do it?

SteveUK said...

Anonymous said...

'Why is it that the women who claim to be most afraid of being raped are the ones who couldn't get raped'I believe its because they are jealous that other women are deemed attractive enough to be raped, but not them.

Women base their worth on their ability to attract males. Those that cant are jealous and bitter.